We have a lad at our work just now who is on a placement with us, a charity pay us to pay him to work for us.
He's 20, he's not even working class because none of his family work. His parents don't work, his siblings don't work, his friends don't work. His grandfather worked in the pits till he was injured in his 30s, he has no other example of a working person to look up to.
I am so depressed for his future, and that of his peers. He hardly turns up to work on time- his alarm didn't go off, the bus was late, his cat was sick. He's almost sick with nerves about office small talk and we're a really small, friendly bunch, he'd never survive in a call centre or a bank. I had to show him how to make the tea when it was his turn on the rota, he just has absolutely no idea at all.
It's going to take a superhuman effort by him to pull himself up, above everyone else around him, when his pals are sitting about all day on their playstations. I don't honestly think he really sees the point of turning up to work. He doesn't even have the incentive to get on the treadmill in the first place. Is that more depressing than working your bum off for next to nothing? I don't know.
I so hope he can do it though, we are all trying so hard to help him. But he's only one person out of hundreds on his estate alone in his position.
So yes, your social class and life circumstances have a huge impact on your life chances. It's so depressing. I don't even know how you begin to fix a problem this big.