Dp and mum have a rocky relationship. She threw him out of house when he was 17 and extremely vulnerable. They've been trying to rebuild relationship in last year or so though.
DP found out last month (via facebook) that mum had married her long term fiance a few days previously!! DP downplayed it, saying it was probably a lunch break, guest free, registry office do.
However they came to visit us at weekend, and the new husband revealed (via showing us the photos) that it was actually in a very nice venue with 12 guests (including my DP's little brother) They all went out for a fancy restaurant meal afterwards as well.
Now I know the rule is that you invite whoever you choose to your wedding, but aibu to be upset about it? It just seems so cold and odd not to invite your own son to your wedding! She also didn't invite her middle son. I've been really trying to encourage DP's relationship with mum up until now, and this feels like a real smack in the face.
I really don't know what to think now
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To be upset DP's mum didn't invite us to her wedding?
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IsthisMummy · 15/11/2016 01:54
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