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AIBU to think my boss is being a bit of an ar*e?

44 replies

bundybear · 01/11/2016 20:35

Hello there wise people of Mumsnetlandia

So, my new(ish) boss announced out of the blue today that he is placing restrictions on our annual leave. No annual leave from mid-August to mid-October, with leave in 'exceptional circumstances' up until mid-December. This is not in our contracts which don't specify anything about when to take leave.

His argument is that it's our busiest time - the reality is that it's pretty bloody busy all year. We're a team of 6 and 4 of us have school age children. Summer childcare is a nightmare so most of us 4 take a chunk of leave in the summer. Not only does this stop that, I feel pretty aggrieved that it takes me away from my kids during the precious school holidays (I work flat-out in term time then try to be around in the hols) and cuts into family time making the possibility of getting away as a family even harder. Plus the restriction is essentially August to December - that's 4 whole months without leave, which doesn't seem reasonable to me.

Boss (man, no kids) says he's checked this with HR and he can 'do what he likes' with leave.

AIBU or is this worthy of a whinge to the Union?

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bundybear · 01/11/2016 21:23

**my first thought after the first thought about school shoes Grin

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cdtaylornats · 01/11/2016 21:24

I suggest an overtime ban from mid-August to mid-October

bundybear · 01/11/2016 21:26

We don't get overtime or lieu time, our contacts state we need to work the hours it takes to get the job done (but obviously this only works one way - we don't seem to be able to nick off early when we're quiet)

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Lizzie101 · 01/11/2016 21:35

Take care , try to be reasonable because if you are difficult about this you may find yourself restructured out of your role.

topcat2014 · 01/11/2016 21:40

Good managers want their staff to take holiday - as it is good for morale etc.

This sounds like too many restrictions to me.

With 6 staff, who have 4 weeks holiday - that's twenty four weeks in total.
If they never crossed over that's six months with one person off.

Obviously that isn't feasible - so you would tend to allow two people off at the same time. Thus, each person can have some time off in August if they want.

Explain to the tit of a boss that everyone's jobs are important - or else there would be no need to employ them in the first place.

Restrictions on time just compress the holidays.

A caveat - in manufacturing it is not uncommon to have shutdowns - but assuming this is office work, he is being unreasonable in the extreme.

bundybear · 01/11/2016 21:42

Oh yes, care required but we're extremely specialised in our roles and relatively hard to replace - he's said previously that he can't afford to lose any of us which makes this all the more puzzling.

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bundybear · 01/11/2016 21:46

Nope, purely office based but we do have whole-institution shut down for 10 days at Christmas and 5 days at Easter - this doesn't come out of annual leave though.

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birdsdestiny · 01/11/2016 21:51

I think your best bet is to try and demonstrate that it isn't going to work in terms of all staff trying to slot their holiday into 8 months instead of 12. I think the person who approaches the boss, should not be you, just because you have done the job before. I personally woulnt go for the discrimination issue as a starting point.

bundybear · 01/11/2016 21:53

Yes I agree, it can't be me but that's ok as everyone feels the same. Think we'll put our heads together and come up with a reasonable compromise to put to him.

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LittleBooInABox · 01/11/2016 22:13

If it's a change in contractual terms I think he'll find he has to give a months notice of the change. Which your free to disagree with. He can not just change the terms of your contract.

I'd complain to HR.

topcat2014 · 02/11/2016 06:57

@bundy - I feel a bit hard done to now - we shut for Christmas week but it comes out of our leave joking

OliviaStabler · 02/11/2016 07:09

I suspect the way to win him over is to go to him with a solution not a complaint.

Work out between yourselves a plan that ensures you will not be short staffed and can still take time as before. Gently remind him that employees happiness has great benefits and this would be a win win for both.

Damia · 02/11/2016 07:43

Do you have an official holiday chart or anything set up? So he could check it at all times and you could all be more aware that you cant have holiday all at the time?

BarbaraofSeville · 02/11/2016 09:20

If you are all specialised in your roles and hard to replace, it sounds like you have bigger problems than when you can take holidays.

What would happen if one of you had to take extended sick leave? More than one person needs to be able to carry out each task. That would also give you more flexibility over taking holidays.

Not allowing holidays between August and December isn't really fair anyway. It's not just parents who want to take holidays at decent times of year.

September is a really popular time for people who aren't restricted to the school holidays to go away as weather is often still decent.

Hv22 · 04/12/2017 11:50

Bundybear
Ive seen your post regarding aspbergers and higher education, granted in 2011. I'm hoping to have a chat with you regarding this, and talk to you about resources etc. Needed. Would this be ok?

NurseButtercup · 04/12/2017 12:03

Hmmmm sounds like a "management" tactic to encourage people to leave.

Create unfavourable work environment = people will resign and leave.

I'm not cynical at all Hmm

I agree with suggestion upthread about collectively agreeing annual leave, plotting it on a planner and presenting it to him. (And moan to HR and Union in the background)

Good luck Flowers

PerpendicularVincent · 04/12/2017 12:34

I may have an idea where you work OP, as a friend of mine has reported similar issues in the department she manages, with a boss making unnecessary rules in an environment that has an ethos of flexibility. Could you work from home at all?

EmilyChambers79 · 04/12/2017 13:34

DH's workplace did this. No annual leave from Jan to July. They were covered by a section in the employee contract which said something like the company can reject annual leave requests if the nature of the business is compromised.

Is there any wording in the holiday section of your contract that could be applied to it?

And I'd always check with ACAS.

Littlebelina · 04/12/2017 14:01

Hopefully the op has sorted this now as it was a year ago.....Hv22 you would be better pming the poster you want to chat to as I doubt they are still checking this thread

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