Dd is in reception and has various complex medical and behavioural needs.
She does not have a one to one yet, it's taking ages :(
Today she has cut two girls hair (only a little), her own hair and bitten one of the girls. There have been instances of pushing, throwing sand etc, she is on the spectrum but they think there is something else going on, we don't know what. She has a brain abdormalitly so we don't know if it's tied into behaviour etc.
She's been talked to, I've apologised but dh is pissed because I offered to pay for the girls to have their hair 'fixed'.
The mothers I know will say it's fine etc because they are kind and everyone knows dd has issues.
But I still think it was the right thing to do. She cut their hair!! I am mortified.
Aibu? Was I being too ott?
I volunteer a lot at school, I've offered to do more with her at school till a one to one is aquired.