A pseudo ex blocked me on Facebook

[MintyMint]

I don't know why.

I hardly talk to him. Whenever we do, it's him who always initiates.

So if you don't even consider him to be a real ex, why are you bothered?

What I mean is he wouldn't even be on my radar,what did you get out of it? Flattery that he contacted you?

No, not pseudo, not anything. Just 'a guy I used to know who had a FB cull'.

Weird, immature drunk behaviour on his part.

He's presumably decided to grow up, and treat his girlfriend with a bit more respect.

It's a good thing IMO.

Why is he a pseuo ex, you never had a relationship with him did you?

I would imagine he has settled down with someone and is tidying up his FB.

pseudo ex sounds so much better than fuck buddy!

Not even a FB though

We dated for three months. Never "shagged". Then I left for home.

We continued talking. We developed a strange friendship. He told me some of his deep dark secrets.

When he had an accident and was in the hospital, he wanted me to come but I didn't. I live half a world away.

Pseudo means false.

Are we meant to ask what the deep dark secrets are?

Anyway, good for him if he has settled down and tidying up his FB.

But why oh why would fuck buddy count more than friends (although strange friendship)?

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen

I don't understand the question. Do you want to know?

No, not pseudo, not anything.

Uhm, we dated for three months, and have been confidantes for eight years, but ok, sure.

Not even a FB though

So FB > confidantes?

Why is he a pseuo ex, you never had a relationship with him did you?

Therefore, pseudo.

Unless your still hang up on him after dating for just 3 months, what is the issue here?

Maybe he was clearing out is friends list?
Maybe he's left Facebook?
It could be a number of things, does it really matter. His life has moved on as I'm sure yours has

Good for him. If your dp /dh kept in contact with an old girlfriend, you might tell him to stop.

So he has a bit of a drink problem, deep dark secrets, a long term girlfriend but is still messaging an ex. Commitment problems to boot. Has it occurred to you that you shouldn't be very bothered?

I know these things hurt, but it's probably for the best. Don't dwell on it, that'll make things worse.

If he's a confidante, you'll have his phone number.

So why not ring and ask him?

It will achieve more than this thread ever will.

Sparklesilverglitter

I was just curious. Like I said, we had a strange friendship.

But you are right.

He's done you a favour, don't waste your time thinking about his motives, it really is throwaway nonsense.If he messages you again with one of his secrets, either tell him to F off or don't reply.Dont give him the headspace.

You dated the many for 3 months, it's not like it was some long love affair.
So why would it even bother you 7-8 years later when he blocks you on Facebook? Surely your life has moved on by now?

Maybe he doesn't use Facebook anymore? As my teen informs me it's outdated
Maybe his marrying his partner and wants rid of the 'deadwood' from the past
Maybe he was clearing out his friends list

To be honest, I think you're well rid of him. It sounds like a rather one-sided 'friendship', where he gets drunk and pours his heart out, knowing you'll provide a sympathetic ear. Did he ever do the same for you?

Put him out of your head and concentrate on real life friends who offer more than this time-waster.

No he hasn't got a drink problem. The op stated that things he tell her would not come from someone who was not drunk. I.e, sending drunk text or message. He is telling her things he would tell someone he was in love with.

The op, thought they were just friends.

I actually, think he has either deleted his fb page or has decided to move on. Having you around is not probably healthy for his relationships.

You dated the many for 3 months, it's not like it was some long love affair.
So why would it even bother you 7-8 years later when he blocks you on Facebook? Surely your life has moved on by now? Mn strange.
You don't have to shag to be in love. The op, dated him for the three months. The relationship has unknowingly continued for years virtually. Emotionally, they have been linked. He has told her lots of secrets. Am assuming the op, has replied back. Supported each other emotionally.

If you can be in love with catfish, why is not possible that there is no love at all. It's great he has decided to block.