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..to be really worried about baby #3's 8 week injections?

92 replies

eggsnmarmite · 03/10/2016 17:48

So many more then when I had my other two a decade ago. That's so much more aluminum preservative to overload his system. Then there's the Men B which is VERY new and causes most babies to have a fever. Plus the rotavirus one - also new - with gastro side effects.

I'm tempted to put them off for a while or stagger them.

But then what if my baby caught one of this rare illnesses and became ill. I'd never forgive myself.

What are your thoughts Mumsnet?

OP posts:
WinchesterWoman · 03/10/2016 21:02

I'm not telling her what to do, Tyrannosaura. It is her decision.

WinchesterWoman · 03/10/2016 21:05

In fact I'm surprised every time by people who tell others to do this when you know nothing about the child or the family history. I would have expected people to for example give their own experiences, or information about the jab. Not tell people what to do when there could be serious consequences. Information is helpful, personal experiences are natural. 'I would do this or that' is natural. Do this! is not natural. It's not like buy this shampoo, or don't let your mother in law come over. It's a medical intervention.

WinchesterWoman · 03/10/2016 21:06

Sorry obviously there are lots here giving their experiences and information, and not saying Do This.

Itscurtainsforyou · 03/10/2016 21:12

We are due the 12 months jabs plus flu jab, so that's flu, a couple of boosters, mmr and men b.

Because of previous reaction and weak immune system we are splitting them over 3 sessions to give his body chance to cope.

If you are really concerned OP, have a chat with your practice nurse and get her advice. But please have them ASAP.

FleurThomas · 03/10/2016 21:16

Parents do have to do their own research though to an extent. For example mortality rates associated with Chicken Pox strains are different depending on location and kids who are sick already will get laid out by even a weak European strain. You wouldn't pay for Rabies or Cow Pox in London but you might in Mumbai etc. I get hallucinations with anti-Malarials so take vit B1 on holiday instead.

KayTee87 · 03/10/2016 21:16

My baby is having his tomorrow and I'm worried that it will be sore and he might cry a lot afterwards but I trust the people that know a lot more about vaccinations wouldn't be giving them to babies if it wasn't better than the alternative.

Witchend · 03/10/2016 21:25

www.gazette-news.co.uk/resources/images/2773212/

This little girls' mum has campaigned for the Meningitis jab so your dc can avoid the risk. Take it.

scarednoob · 03/10/2016 21:33

"Do your own research". Sure, if you are qualified enough to understand it properly and have access to all the accurate sources.

If not, you are just relying on other people vaccinating their kids to protect yours.

WinchesterWoman · 03/10/2016 21:40

Just out of interest, how much time does the average doctor spend studying vaccination? I genuinely don't know.

EllsTeeth · 03/10/2016 21:47

Depends what kind of doctor Winchester woman

Idefix · 03/10/2016 21:51

Op I understand your concerns, no one wants to make their baby upset by the sharp pain of the injection or the fever post vaccination. But this is a short term pain/discomfort compared to contracting the actual diseases.

Ds contracted rotavirus when he was 13mths old, he was very ill and was beginning to show signs of kidney problems. The speed with which he became seriously ill was terrifying.

I think it is amazing that there is now a vaccination that can prevent this disease.

LivinOnAChair · 03/10/2016 22:03

I'm telling OP what to do Winchester, get him vaccinated! It's irresponsible to the rest of society not to, let alone posing a huge risk to your tiny child. There have recently been cases of diseases that have been previously thought to be largely eradicated in this country (eg TB) due to antivaxxers. There's no two ways about it, these diseases are killers why would you not want to prevent them? Not to mention the implications for the immunosuppressed. My DS (7m) had a horrible fever type reaction to both the 8 and 16 week jabs (men b) but was infinitely better than the possibility of him contracting it and losing his life or limbs...

Babydontcry · 03/10/2016 22:14

I hated taking my 12 week old DS for his, he was grouchy and out of sorts for 24 hours but think it better than catching the illnesses he is being vaccinated against. Can u take anyone for support? X

ArgyMargy · 03/10/2016 22:25

Livinonachair the rise in TB has absolutely nothing to do with "antivaxxers". TB vaccine is not offered to children now except in high incidence areas.

Oly5 · 03/10/2016 22:40

Men B is not new..new to the NHS but not new to other parts of the world!
I've paid privately for men B. Meningitis kills and devastates lives.
And all the other vaccinations I've given in a heartbeat.
You're right - our never forgive yourself if your child was fighting for their life in a hospital from something preventable.

LivinOnAChair · 03/10/2016 22:40

Maybe that was a bad example for the uk, but higher incidences of whooping cough outbreaks, reemergence of measles after the MMR/autism rumour and low uptake of the vaccine in the early 2000's...

Oly5 · 03/10/2016 22:41

*you would

kensausage13 · 04/10/2016 13:09

OP please vaccinate your child.

DoNotBlameMeIVotedRemain · 04/10/2016 13:30

Get him vaccinated. If you're worried speak to doctor about spreading them out a bit. By 16 weeks your baby will be protected against most dangerous diseases free of charge. That makes me proud to be British :)

ineedwine99 · 04/10/2016 13:37

Sorry to hijack the thread, my baby is having her 8 week jabs on Friday, what do you recommend re the calpol? At the time/before jabs?

adagio · 04/10/2016 13:44

My anecdata - got both my kids vaccinated with everything offered. DD1 is 3.5 so didn't get offered men b or rotavirus.

Dd2 obviously didn't enjoy the injections but was ok 5 mins later after a cuddle and some boob. I did give calpol as recommended and she was fine - maybe a bit more cuddly than usual but no lasting issues.

Imho I trust the professionals who have researched this and devised the schedule a lot more than I trust google! Plus I could never forgive myself if something preventable happened to my babies :(

Alabastard · 04/10/2016 13:45

Calpol before you leave the house and two more doses afterwards.

adagio · 04/10/2016 13:46

Ineedwine- I gave calpol half an hour before so it was in her system ready, then every 4 hours.

ineedwine99 · 04/10/2016 14:08

Thank you Smile

LetsJunglyJumpToIt · 04/10/2016 14:12

I didn't think you were supposed to give calpol before hand anymore, except afterwards for the men B jab, as you need the immune response.