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to get annoyed when a home schooling parent...

278 replies

00100001 · 29/09/2016 10:13

... can't spell?

My SIL home schools her daughter.

But all the time, she is posting "I just thort of a new idea..." or "We just need to get threw this..." or ^"I love home schoolling" etc.

Just makes me twitch.

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CockacidalManiac · 29/09/2016 10:17

The whole concept of home schooling makes me twitch.

Amethyst81 · 29/09/2016 10:18

YANBU her poor DD.

user1474926891 · 29/09/2016 10:19

Ugh. I hope she's not the educator.

CodyKing · 29/09/2016 10:19

Wots rong wif dat? Grin

00100001 · 29/09/2016 10:34

she is the 'educator' yes!

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Only1scoop · 29/09/2016 10:35

Like having a dentist with no teeth.

Soubriquet · 29/09/2016 10:37

Her bubba her rulez

Maybe she wants to teach her yoonique spellings Wink

DollyBarton · 29/09/2016 10:38

I was at my ds's nursery (nursery!) curriculum meeting last night and was quite honestly laughing at the thought of meetings about a 3yr olds curriculum! But I've come away with such a respect for these teachers that are putting thought, care, structure and discipline into my child's learning in a way I don't think I could manage. It would take someone very talented, trained and special to do that as a homeschooler so it really makes me wonder how good homeschooling can be in general.

All the learning is sneakily done through play but what they are achieving is amazing.

Pisssssedofff · 29/09/2016 10:43

Well it depends what you want for your child doesn't it. I'm on kid 4, I've done private school, kumon, state all sorts and now frankly they can shove their learning outcomes up their arses. I'll be delighted if none of mine have a nervous brwakdown by the time they've been through the school system with its sneaky learning through play shit

Pisssssedofff · 29/09/2016 10:44

The worlds changing at an alarming rate. Nobody will be doing things the way we did them or do them now in 10 years time

FlyingElbows · 29/09/2016 10:45

I might get slaughtered for thus but tbh in my experience some primary teachers aren't a whole lot better. How children are supposed to grasp spelling, punctuation and grammar when their teachers don't use it is beyond me. I freely admit to being a terrible snob but it pains me to go to my children's school and listen to the head say things like "right boys and girls yous have to sit quiet now.".

paxillin · 29/09/2016 10:46

Well, at school they teach the "three Rs", don't they? Reading, riting and rithmetc.

CozyAutumn · 29/09/2016 10:46
a7mints · 29/09/2016 10:46

I would just butt out.absolutely NOYB

MycatsaPirate · 29/09/2016 10:46

yanbu.

The worst thing I ever read was a post from a woman who said she home schooled her dd who was 9. DD couldn't read but it was fine because she watched documentaries on tv and that would teach her everything.

paxillin · 29/09/2016 10:46

rithmetic.

witsender · 29/09/2016 10:47

You can home ed without knowing how to spell. I'm not sure why people are so squiffy about home ed, it is hardly as if all schools are fabulous, amazing places that nurture our children and turn out well rounded individuals is it? Besides...whatever school she went to clearly failed to educate her, right?! Wink

JenLindleyShitMom · 29/09/2016 10:48

Loads of teachers can't spell or talk properly, or treat children properly either.

LaContessaDiPlump · 29/09/2016 10:49

I value education. That's why I wouldn't dream of trying to dish it up myself!!

Trust the professionals (unless they are overtly batshit) Wink

SoupDragon · 29/09/2016 10:52

The worlds changing at an alarming rate. Nobody will be doing things the way we did them or do them now in 10 years time

Spelling and punctuation haven't changed in the many years since I was at primary school though.

witsender · 29/09/2016 10:52

I value education...which is why I wouldn't hand it over to a school. Wink

Teacher training isn't all that. It is mainly crowd control, which isn't necessary when you don't have a crowd of young kids in a room who are expected to sit still!

JenLindleyShitMom · 29/09/2016 10:52

If only we could be sure of which professionals also valued education.

Jackiebrambles · 29/09/2016 10:52

Oh dear.

I consider myself reasonably intelligent. But I could never home school in a million years!

SoupDragon · 29/09/2016 10:53

I would be a shit teacher. I've "tutored" my three for the English part of the 11+ and it drove me to tears. I could absolutely not do it for a living or as a home schooler!

eatsleephockeyrepeat · 29/09/2016 10:53

Perhaps she's just a terrible typist? fat fingers