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national trust

100 replies

My2favboys · 17/09/2016 20:28

to lie on my national just form and use "dr" with a gender neutral name so either mu husband or my sister could use it depending on who's with my??

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Boundaries · 17/09/2016 20:29

That is actual genius 😮

RiverTam · 17/09/2016 20:29

Oh, that's very clever. Wish I done it on a membership I've just taken out!

Crispbutty · 17/09/2016 20:31

Yes you would be unreasonable. The money goes towards making sure the properties and areas are kept as well as possible for future generations. Lots of volunteers also work hard at national trust properties and it really isn't expensive for a years membership. We save a fortune in car parking alone.

Boundaries · 17/09/2016 20:31

I have just checked when mine runs out: next month.

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LaurieFairyCake · 17/09/2016 20:33

Do you mean using DR as a first name?

Because there's 3 boxes. Title, first name, surname

So not sure how you would get away with that?

Bagina · 17/09/2016 20:35

Dr Sam Smith???

cuntinghomicidalcardigan · 17/09/2016 20:35

Dr Lesley Smith?

maloryt0wers · 17/09/2016 20:35

Yes of course you are being unreasonable, but im sure you know that. What would happen if everyone did this?
Anyway don't you and DH want to go at the same time?

Bagina · 17/09/2016 20:35

Dr Sam Smith???

sooperdooper · 17/09/2016 20:35

LaurieFairyCake

No, eg. Dr (title) Sam (gender neutral) Smith :)

Bagina · 17/09/2016 20:35

Ha!

Bagina · 17/09/2016 20:36

YANBU!!

My2favboys · 17/09/2016 20:37

just reread that! how many typos can you have in one op. Blush
I get that the money goes towards the upkeep and all but it's actually stopping me joining since my husband would only be able to go once in a while and then I'd be pissed having to pay for anyone who comes with me when I'd paid membership

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maloryt0wers · 17/09/2016 20:38

Oh just reread, either DH or DSis .

BurnTheBlackSuit · 17/09/2016 20:38

Stealing from a charity. Nice.

TwistNshout · 17/09/2016 20:39

You do realise the NT is a charity don't you? Are you comfortable defrauding a charity?

Lazyafternoon · 17/09/2016 20:39

Genius idea!

But it is a tad mean spirited. NT is a charity after all. If it were a big profit making business I might feel differently. But cheating a charity - YABU.

StealthPolarBear · 17/09/2016 20:40

It's ok. I'm sure the sister will buy a scone. Because the nt makes those for nowt.

wasonthelist · 17/09/2016 20:40

and then I'd be pissed having to pay for anyone who comes with me when I'd paid membership

Why?

Would you also shoplift items from the gift shop?

mogloveseggs · 17/09/2016 20:42

I'd do it.

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 17/09/2016 20:42

Has no one mentioned the Scottish NT scam yet?

My2favboys · 17/09/2016 20:43

I'm not technically stealing. I will pay membership for two adults, I'd just like it to be flexible with who the second adult is. It's similar to lending your pass to someone if you weren't using it

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wasonthelist · 17/09/2016 20:45

I'm not technically stealing

Correct.

Thatchers children - it's not wrong if you don't get caught.

MenMust · 17/09/2016 20:47

YABU. You are defrauding a charity.

RiverTam · 17/09/2016 20:47

I really don't think that the NT are strapped for cash. Nor do I think that they are particularly value for money, given that you pay for a year's membership, but you can only access their properties for about 9 months of the year. And the membership isn't cheap.

It's hardly taking food from starving children.

I say all of this as a member and someone who's been a member a number of times.