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AIBU?

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To be scared of a thunderstorm

79 replies

yummymummy1920 · 13/09/2016 19:24

Down in the north west we've got a very heavy and loud thunderstorm.. But it's literally the first one in my whole life I've ever been on my own through and I'm shaking ..
Sky has gone down and I can't get a signal for the digital tv either so I'm sat in silence.. Can all you lovely people give me a distraction please?

OP posts:
stubbornstains · 13/09/2016 20:42

I thought the drains had blocked, but no. It's just that it came down so fast. And we're on top of a hill! But it's localised- the garden is below the level of the adjacent road. Time for a serious chat with the housing association tomorrow, I think (it's a new build, so this hasn't been picked up on). And to get some household insurance- another 6 inches and it'd have been in the house! Shock

Hawkmoth · 13/09/2016 20:43

North Manchester. Amazing but all the children and both cats have gone bonkers.

Northernlurker · 13/09/2016 20:44

I can see the lightning in York.

Silvercatowner · 13/09/2016 20:49

Waaaaa not fair! I want a thunderstorm! It's horribly hot and sticky here, not a cloud in the sky.

Cliffdiver · 13/09/2016 20:53

When you've finished with it can you send it down to the South East please? Smile

DesertIslandPenguin · 13/09/2016 20:58

We had it earlier. It thundered for about an hour as well as pouring with rain. DS said that the playground was hit by lightning but I suspect there was some exaggeration. I did dutifully look at the patch he insisted was struck, though.

ThymeLord · 13/09/2016 21:15

All gone now. The moon is out and it's clearing up ☺

Skittlesss · 13/09/2016 21:18

RachelRagged Stormborn Grin

I'm in West Yorkshire too, sad the storm has passed. It was rather exciting.

thisismeusernameything · 13/09/2016 21:20

So jealous. I love a good thunderstorm. It's 3 billion degrees still down here in east anglia.

MrsJayy · 13/09/2016 21:22

I love thunderstorms my dd is really frightened of them its a shame we had 1 last month it was spectacular we really need 1 here the air is horrible. Hope youfeel better now its passed op

DrFoxtrot · 13/09/2016 21:29

I'm NW on the coast, I got caught in the thunderstorm while out running, I just thought it would be raining, I didn't expect thunder and lightning Blush. It's not the most amazing storm I've ever seen but out in the dark on country lanes, I still shit myself! I did a personal best as I ran so fast GrinHalo

bertsdinner · 13/09/2016 21:30

Im in West Yorkshire too, storm passed but it was a good one. Loads of sheet lightening, really strong and it went for ages. Absolutely poured it down aswell.

liz70 · 13/09/2016 21:32

I love a good thunderstorm too; sadly we don't get them much here. That said, not long ago we had a thunderclap directly above our house. OMG I have never heard such an enormous

BOOM!

in my entire life. Shock It sounded like a bomb had dropped. Scared the wits out me - I near jumped out of my skin.

Sorry, OP. I'm not helping, am I?Blush

fiverabbits · 13/09/2016 21:34

I went out in the car at 10.30 am with my DD it was just cloudy but by 10.40 it was pouring with rain and thunder and lighting. I was not impressed when my DD went into Homebase and left me in the car as I am scared of thunderstorms. I am now 64 years old and have also scared all my life just like my Mum, I even don't like the symbols on the weather charts. I am in South Wales and am sure it was meant to be a dry sunny day.

mogloveseggs · 13/09/2016 21:35

Yanbu. Im terrified. Worst thing is trying to stay calm for the kids as they don't like it when all I want to do is hide under the bed with the dog!

BIWI · 13/09/2016 21:36

But why?! What is it you're scared of? If you can articulate it, perhaps we can help you

Puppymouse · 13/09/2016 21:38

Normally I squeak and cower at home when there's a storm but the one today started while I was in the middle of a field sorting out DHorse. And he couldn't have cared less. Despite being frightened of carrier bags and branches Hmm so I took his lead and just ignored it!

twocultures · 13/09/2016 21:40

S.Yorks here had it about 2h ago but I think it kind of passed us by, there was a huge downpour and lots and lots of lighting but the thunder was quite quiet. DS loved it though !

Jenijena · 13/09/2016 21:40

I'm not keen on them. Definitely related to the fact my mum taught at a school where one boy was killed and another injured by a lightening bolt, back in about 1980. But I admire the spectacle.

mogloveseggs · 14/09/2016 10:34

Gah! More storms due tomorrow apparently!
Im scared of them because they're so unpredictable, you can't say where they will hit (lightening) and I hate loud noises.

ZebraOwl · 14/09/2016 11:14

BIWI - no SE London storms brewing atm: my lungs provide my with an early warning system (pity they feel the appropriate response to a thunderstorm = massive asthma attack 🙄 - even more fun if things get bad enough to trigger a seizure, mwerble...)

Those things aside, I've never been good with storms. On the plus side, I now know my fear response (& full on leaping, I do a quite impressive impression of a Harrier jump-jet taking off if I'm lying down & there's a peal of thunder) is part of the superfuntimes bit of my disability where I produce WAY too much adrenaline. So I get nowhere near enough sleep, but manage to function (but feel grim); & have the most ridiculously exaggerated startle responses ever; and in something like a storm where I'm constantly being startled my brain is basically being flooded with "you are in life-threatening danger!" messages. Makes alpine thunderstorms (the sort that go rolling round mountains for hours) REALLY fun, between the back-to-back nebs & blinky bits of brainweird & then ZOMG YOUR DOOM IS IMMINENT. Silly brain...

My poor cats are very scared of thunder too, though less scared than when they were younger - they seem to have decided it is not the actual end of the world, they just (understandably, given how sensitive their hearing is!) don't like the loud noises! They will come up to snuggle with me, but they do that regardless - is nothing like when they used to run & hide & stress-groom; or if they sought me out they'd not so much snuggle with me as practically try to burrow into my ribcage... They are actually less jumpy than I am Blush

So, OP, I think YANBU at all. I also think it's not uncommon for people who are afraid of thunder/storms to be unable to articulate what it is that actually frightens them: it's a... primal fear, almost? It taps into something quite deep in our Being Human. Sorry, yet again, wildly inarticulate due to serious sleep deprivation. Mwerbleumph.

weeblueberry · 14/09/2016 11:34

Love thunderstorms. Very erotic but I have no idea why...?

BIWI · 14/09/2016 13:12

Zebra - that sounds grim. But you made me Grin describing yourself as a Harrier jump jet!

BTW - I wasn't trying to say that the OP (or anyone else who is scared) is BU, I just wanted to understand why!

milkyface · 14/09/2016 13:36

Biwi I'm personally scared that lightening will strike my house and kill us all, or set it on fire. I'm scared the rain will come In somehow, the noise of thunder just makes me nervous I guess.

All ridiculous fears, I assume it's very rare for a house to be struck. Irrational fears really but still fears!

CPtart · 14/09/2016 13:38

Drove into Manchester last night for the City game (called off!) and have never seen a storm like it. The water was almost knee deep in places. A complete deluge but fantastic lightning show that went on and on.