I work full time and I feel like a crappy parent at the best of times and my dp is a bit on the controlling side but not in an abusive way just in the way where I am not allowed to do anything in the house or with the kids without feeling I have to ask permission. Anyway...it's my eldest daughter's first day of school tomorrow and I haven'the had input in anything. He got the uniform and shoestrogen etc without me and I come home from work today and he's cut her hair and my son's hair too. Apparently I ABU because it's him thats going to be doing school runs et while I am at work. This is my first born going to school for the first time and I have the day off from work and I just feel pushed out and pointless