Update on Entitles Neighbour

[EtTuTuttiFrutti]

I don't know how to link to it or find it, but my neighbour basically said she couldn't help me/DH out with a hospital appointment (long time in advance), but then asked me to have her dog (no notice), a few days after surgery.

Haven't seen her since, or heard the dog (Caramel) in the back garden.

She just pulled into her drive as I was pulling in after picking up my DD.

I didn't say anything but she was very icy and said "He's had to go to kennels" and then as she went in through her front door she said "I'm finding this very difficult".

Perhaps we should send a wife-needing priest to knock on your neighbour's door.

She needs a mumsnet flashmob to show her really difficult.
Can anyone play bongos? Bagpipes? Recorder badly?

How oh so difficult for her - I remember your thread, she's extraordinarily entitled!

I hope your second surgery goes well too. Shame they've had to repeat it. Are you worried?

Carabos. She is supremely entitled and Abraaid, I do think there is something wrong with her (genuinely). I just don't know what psychiatric term applies.

She once told me that she knew she was the most beautiful, talented, intelligent and charming woman.
I have to hand it to her. She is stunning in a very exhausting high maintenance way ; and I have to confess I was a bit jealous of her looks and the way men go stupid around her. But she's vacuous and has the moral compass of a human Marie Celeste.

Exactly what carabos said. I remember your posts, I hope your second procedure is straightforward and you have a quick recovery - to relax and do what you want, not so that you can be your selfish git of a ndn's dogsbody.

As someone said on MN before, she's so cheeky she's not just got a brass neck, she's entirely made of brass!

Was she the one who wanted ambulance to move? Hope you get better soon op

Alpaca can anyone play bongos? Bagpipes? Recorder badly?

...I present to you my DC, they also have a harmonica each

What is she like!!!

Thanks Decaff. It's nowhere near as big an op as the last one; but tit has just about healed now and is at the lovely bruised yellow stage.
I'm pissed off and angry and I want the fucking cancer cut out NOW. I want to start chemo yesterday as it's agressive and I am bloody angry that I'm back to square one; but I'm not worried. I think you get to a stage where you don't have the energy to worry anymore.

Apologies people. The cancer breast is referred to as "Tit". It's not my friend at the moment.

Etu I remember your comments about the neighbour and I commented on it, I think I said send anonymous letters to the spouses! Is the term narcissist for these people? She is obviously completely self obsessed, not even asking you how you are and saying she is finding it very difficult, who cares what she thinks! So sorry you are needing more surgery, just try and forget about the bitch, easy to say I know. 💐

EtTu - buggeration re. not getting the clearance margins they'd have liked and you having to have it re-done. :( Hope they get it all next time!

I'm sure Caramel is none the worse for their kennel experience, even if EntitledTwatNeighbour is finding it all "very difficult". I suspect what she's finding most difficult is knowing now that you Can and Will say no to short notice dumpings of Caramel upon you, so she may have to pay for the kenneling service again! hahahaa!

Being away from the dog is the bit she's finding difficult?

The best thing you did was to look at her like and close your door quietly.

Continue with that face and remember 'NOT ON YOUR LIFE' should she dare to ask you for favours in the future.

I trust there will be no more neighbourliness on your part beyond brisk "Good mornings" etc in passing?

Ugh!

I remember your original thread. So sorry you're having to have a second surgery. I remember waiting for biopsy results and I don't think I'd have been as polite to the entitled twat as you were.
If she says anything again tell her ODFOD.

I do feel sorry for Caramel.
She was all over him when he was a puppy but dumps him at a moments notice (not just us). Cats have servants but dogs need owners; and really don't appreciate being pushed from pillar to post.
I think the dog is actually depressed. All the sparks gone out of him.

Oh was she the ambulance-moving neighbour! I remember her.

I think she found leaving the dog at a kennel hard.
Obvioulsy she has lots of empathy, just for dogs, not for humans ....

EtTu, I remember your last thread and I was just thinking about you this morning

Your neighbour is batshit.

I don't think she had an ambulance situation Abraiid
She's very fit as I mentioned above .

No no, that was someone else with the ambulance - the OP needed one, and the ambulance parked a foot or so onto the neighbour's drive, which brought her out in a huff DEMANDING they moved it, despite the fact they were trying to get the OP into it and blue-light her to hospital!

Not you, EtTu, a different OP. Sorry, not very clear there!!

She said weird comments as she wants and expects you to run over and apologise, thereby agreeing to go back to serving her.

It's manipulative and fits with her other major flaw: selfishness.

Fill your life with happiness as you are clearly the better person!

Now that Thumbwitch is absolutely vitriolic.

I'm not really feeling anything much about her at the mo Lilac. As my teenager would say mhhhhh. I feel a bit sad for her, but more so for the dog.

At the grand old age of 50 (cough), I'm starting to think about what really matters, what makes me really happy and what I want.
The rest of it is just a load of bolleaux and water of this old bird's back.

What the hell. She really expected you to look after her dog when she couldn't help you out especially given what you had asked for help over. Some people in this world really are bat shit!
Hope your healing up well