Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To think excess skin removal should be available on the NHS?

304 replies

TheGoodEnoughWife · 29/08/2016 20:29

I know being fat is seen as being self inflicted although I don't agree that it is and that people over eating should be taken as seriously as people under eating. But that isn't necessarily my point here..,

I am very overweight (about 6st overweight but am tall) and one of the things in the back of my mind is that if I lose weight my saggy skin will be awful. The reality is my 'strain' on the NHS being overweight has the potential to be great - surely encouragement to lose weight would cost the NHS less in the long run?
It would be helpful maybe to me and others who need to lose a lot of weight to know that treatment for excess skin would be available to them?

Now I may get flamed about self inflicted and so on but if I drive a car badly and crash I would be treated on the NHS, if I drink like a fish and cause myself illness I would be treated on the NHS, if I go about extreme sports and hurt myself I also would get treated on the NHS.
(I don't do any of those things!)

Any one see where I am coming from?

OP posts:
brasty · 04/09/2016 12:30

Some fat people binge. A friend is like this. She eats a normal amount of food, then every few days has a massive binge. That is an eating disorder, but there is no help for it.

TheGoodEnoughWife · 04/09/2016 12:54

Yes I do feel like that Heyday.

But, and trying to give real honesty here, I feel out of control, I feel deprived if I don't have access to food (a throw back to times in the past where I have been really hungry) and a bit like I am hiding behind a layer of fat. I can tell myself I will do things when I am thin or be happy/successful/liked if I was thin but I don't have to test that theory as I never actually get there.

Pretty screwed up really!

OP posts:
heyday1 · 04/09/2016 13:00

I know why you feel that way honestly I do, I used to be fat and thought my life would get radically better when I got to be slim and size 10. Do you know the truth? It didn't. I actually couldn't stop thinking I was fat even though I was size 10.

My advice is to do the best you can and don't put your life on hold waiting for that day that you are slim. I really wish you the best Flowers

HelenaDove · 04/09/2016 18:14

SallyVating have you thought of going to the press.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is closed and is no longer accepting replies. Click here to start a new thread.