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Creepy fucker

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FellOutOfBed2wice · 23/08/2016 15:22

AIBU to think that maybe the course of true love never did run smooth, but this is creepy fucker territory?

My best friends boss is a well known local "character". Ran a cafe with his first wife for years in the local town- from the time they married in the late sixties until the late ninties. He brought her out after he left her- at the age of 45- for their 23 year old daughters best friend. Cue, local scandal. But I accept that sometimes, love is a mystery and maybe they were in love. They had two kids together and seemed very happy- according to BF, I only know them in passing- for nearly 20 years.

Just heard he's left his "new" wife for one of her nieces!! She's 26.

I'm trying not to be judgemental here but that's grim and not about true love, is it? That's being a dirty old man!!

This is my first time on AIBU but the whole thing has grossed me and my friend out and I just wanted to check I wasn't needing my judgey pants taking off. No problem with age gaps- been out with older men myself and almost 15 years between my parents, so very comfortable with that- just think this is perv territory. What a wrong un!

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flippinada · 23/08/2016 20:21

Iwas I think you're right. It sounds like he groomed both his second wife and then her neice in turn once she got too old. That's really nasty.

PaulDacreCuntyMcCuntFace · 23/08/2016 20:37

Boggles at the irony of FullTimeYummy's username.

Really not terribly 'yummy' behaviour.

FellOutOfBed2wice · 23/08/2016 21:59

In answer to asking about the first wife- they were married right out of school. I'm glad most people agree with me that this is creepy as balls. I know it's none of my business and has very little impact on my life, and re the second wife it was kind of grim but I get that you can't help who you love etc.... However the fact he's done it again is what makes me think creepy fucker!!

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FellOutOfBed2wice · 23/08/2016 22:25

Now I've RTFT I'm also thinking those of you discussing grooming may have a point. I'm glad most people think he's a creep though.

Also for those of you asking about the wider implications for the family- none of his children from his first marriage speak to him, including one who took some kind of injunction out against him when he started turning up at his house uninvited. And now neither child from the second marriage- they're aged 15/16ish- want anything to do with him and it's caused a massive rift (obviously!) between the second wife and her sister because the sisters daughter is now engaged to her ex husband (and the father of her cousins!!)

Grim.

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QueenLaBeefah · 23/08/2016 22:36

YANBU

he sounds like a creepy fucker.

ZenMom · 23/08/2016 23:28

YANBU I don't get why women know these men and fall for them makes me feel icky

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