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To just ignore Chuggers and similar

81 replies

wasonthelist · 18/08/2016 11:40

A woman trying to flog some kind of lottery tried to accost me with the usual "Hello/excuse me". Politeness probably dictates a polite response - but I feel the normal rules of social discourse are being subverted here and I've taken to just totally blanking such folk.

I know they have a job to do, but I think it's wrong to take advantage of the circumstances in this way.

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LineyReborn · 18/08/2016 21:38

Where I live we've had some problems with really aggressive chuggers, who ignore 'No thanks' and even ignore a hand held up to keep them at bay. They operate on lone shoppers in pairs.

They are shouty, invasive and basically rude.

Niggit · 18/08/2016 21:56

"I had an NSPCC one have a go at me near Oxford Street once. He had the gall to shout after me (after I'd given a polite, no thank you) "DON'T YOU CARE ABOUT CHILDREN BEING RAPED???" - to which I shouted back, "NO, IT'S CHARACTER-BUILDING".

I'm sorry, but that made me laugh. A lot. I had one come to my door a while ago; I can't remember what he was raising money for, but I told him I already supported several charities (true) and didn't want to give to any more - at which he went off on a little lecture about how he also gave to a lot of favourite charities, but did it on alternate months so everybody benefited! He was like a sticky burr in a mohair jumper...

MsAdorabelleDearheartVonLipwig · 18/08/2016 22:07

We have a regular lady in our town. She's been there for years. She asked me four times in one shopping trip once, that's my record so far. I just keep saying no thank you, I can't be rude, I'd feel awful.

I did stupidly fall for one on the doorstep once. I felt such a twat after he'd gone and cancelled it. Why the fuck I thought it was a good idea to give my bank details to a random stranger I will never know.

BadLad · 18/08/2016 22:10

I think being rude is the only way to deal with chuggers.

Really 'fucks off and get a proper job' should suffice.

My hero. Couldn't agree more

Dragonfly3 · 18/08/2016 22:24

I smile in strange overzealous way, nod vigorously and keep walking. Basically I adopt a crazed lone woman look and I get left alone Grin

annandale · 18/08/2016 22:25

Hate it all. Hate that people have to do these jobs, hate that charities are such huge operations that it's worthwhile contracting out to these firms. Most of all I hate being approached. I'm good at slowing down enough until they are talking to someone else and then speeding up. Otherwise, 'sorry' covers it all.

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