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AIBU to feel that's not ok for my my colleagues to join my holiday....???

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martuniia · 14/08/2016 22:46

Hi, I'm leaving my job officaly beacuse of career progress, but the main reason was one of the colleagues i work with. We have children simmilar age, and we used to visit each other (years ago) but we haven't visited them for 2 years as I just dont feel we have anything in common. I feel quite tired with all the small talk at work, and we are totally different personalities as well! Anyway....i am leaving my job, last day Friday 12th, plus week holiday before new job, we booked camping site for 8 days...last Thursday she informed me she just booked the same site ...i thought ok, it's a big site, we dont have to spend time together, but it looks like like she has everything planed and think we are spending this time together! Dont get me wrong, but i dont have a lot time alone with my husbend and was really looking forward to those few days on our own....as well, at my leaving drinks she mentioned to everyone " you know what, i booked the same camp site as M. and she did not even say she is happy about it!' I did not comment as I genuily dont feel happy about it!!!!. AIBU or should I just get on with this....;(

OP posts:
Geekmama · 27/08/2016 22:05

How did it go OP?

flupi · 27/08/2016 22:34

This is your precious holiday. Personally I wouldn't want any conflict or worry that I was going to bump into her and then have to make excuses or get pressured into doing something together. I would book another site in Devon. There are hundreds. Bound to be as nice as the one you've been to before. And whatever you do, don't tell her/ put on Fb or mention it to anyone who's likely to see her. We don't get enough holidays - go and enjoy this one.

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