To show OW what a cheating bar steward she has gained

[Treeclot]

Name change. ExP cheated on me, I kicked him out and he moved in with OW (it had been going on for two months). She's acted like a royal shit. She knew about me and our baby. I've seen an email from her to him advising him on how to get out of paying child support. She sent goading messages to me when I was at my lowest. Total bitch.

He's a bastard too. He cheated and he's went along with her shady behaviour. I am being civil with him because it's to my advantage to have a civil relationship.

Because he's a tool, he interprets my niceness as being potential to resume a sexual relationship.

They plan to get married early next year.

I'm tempted to record him and his advances and send her the material. Is that a terrible idea? I wouldn't let him go all the way. I just hate them so much I want to spoil their cosy delusional relationship.

This is what FB was invented for isn't it?

Tag them in and all the friends. The night before the wedding.

Ah lord that would be brilliant. All the guests wondering at what point the messy wedding meltdown would occur. I think I'll go to bed now with that fantastic image!

The moral high ground is totally overrated. Do it. I would.

A wedding gift, to be opened a day or two after the wedding.

Oh yeah defo let her marry the fucker first then fuck the pair of them over! Cunts like that deserve it

She won't believe you, whatever you do or say.

The best revenge is letting them get married

It is a cliche but very, very true: the best revenge is living well. Head up, polite exchanges when necessary, get on with life. Now is the time to lose weight, tone up, get a make over, buy some killer heels, rearrange the furniture, binge watch your favourite shows, paint the bedroom the colour you always wanted, find a new hobby, work on yourself or just do whatever makes you feel good.

Whatever you do, focus on you, not him, her or her and him. Push nasty, difficult thoughts away, and work towards that new life. It will come all the quicker if you let it - which means letting them go.

I almost feel sorry for the OW. She has to spend the rest of her life trapped in a mind that's a moral cesspit, AND she's got a perma-pronged lackwit for a partner.

You, however, are FREEEEEEEEEEE!!!

I see why you're tempted but the best punishment she can receive is finding out in her own time. He'll cheat on her and maybe she'll chest on him after all she had no problem with being the OW. Maybe they are perfect for each other.

Just be civil but no nicer than you have to be and reiterate you are being civil not to get back with him sleep with his filthy cock.

The arrogance he shows is laughable.

I wouldn't say a thing. Let her learn the hard way. You don't owe her anything x

I wouldn't go so far as getting the evidence OP. You'll be feeding his already inflated ego by thinking you are not over him. Don't give the smug shit the satisfaction of thinking you still want him.