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To wonder if people actually spend 200+ on a weekly shop

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pleasemothermay1 · 23/07/2016 20:36

Watching eat well for less and I just can't believe people actually spend 200+ a week on a food shop

One lady was giving a teen 20 a week to get chips and chicken 😟

We have 6 in our family

One baby
One toddler
One teen
Me and hubby
And a cat

I spend £65 a week including nappies and toiletries

This gose up to £90 during holidays and the teen is eating at home not collage

It's mad what are these people feeding there kids

My children have breakfast lunch and dinner I don't encourage grazing all day they can have fruit in between meals and I cook from sctrach pretty much 5 days a week junk on a Saturday then roast on a Sunday

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Oblomov16 · 25/07/2016 14:00

Why is this so odd? I can easily spend £100 on a family shop, in Sainsbury's, for 4 of us. And then I would need to buy more bread and milk and other stuff later in the week.

drspouse · 25/07/2016 14:02

mrsvilliers If she's working full time and both she and her DH are buying ready made sandwiches, a snack item and a drink that's approaching £5/day/person i.e. another £50 per week.
So not that frugal after all, really.

GarlicStake · 25/07/2016 14:08

You really have unbelievably cheap food in the UK, you don't know how lucky you are.

How true :) Mostly thanks to that common agricultural policy we dislike so much.

drspouse · 25/07/2016 14:11

DameDiazepam Half a pint is pretty hard to swallow in one gulp. I don't think you can "swig" half a pint. Sure, you can drink half a pint from the carton without sitting down but 4 pints of any single thing is a lot to drink in a day, let alone milk.

The NHS suggests 6-8 glasses i.e. 1.5-2l so the top end of that is 4 pints total. I know that's not a maximum, but it seems odd to have all of a teenager's recommended fluid intake in the form of milk, when most toddlers don't have this. Not unhealthy, obviously, but a bit unnecessary if you are really spending £50 a week on milk!

I bet those teenagers find out quickly that they don't have to drink 4 pints a day when they are paying for it themselves!

GarlicStake · 25/07/2016 14:14

Kate - Ham's a good protein source, although you shouldn't live on it because of the manufacturing process. That same process, though, concentrates the protein elements - and makes it taste nice! Cheese & eggs are, too.

If you keep cheese, eggs & ham in the fridge you've always got some easy protein that goes with pretty much everything. I hard-boil a pan full of eggs at a time to leave in the fridge - can't eat cheese any more 😰 so the eggs are my reach-and-eat muscle snack.

Kateallison16 · 25/07/2016 14:24

Thank you! :) Cheese is my favourite food haha. Doctors have said only thing I'm lacking in is vitamin D and calcium. I haven't quite bounced back from chemo. I'm not too worried about my diet at the moment to be totally honest. My diet is varied with lots of veg, meats and whole grains. Plus I pop vitamins too :)

I will try and eat more eggs I think, egg salad is rather lush.

Didn't think what we ate as a little family was far off what others ate, but I'm always happy to hear what others have to say as we can all learn from each other :)

JemimaMuddledUp · 25/07/2016 14:26

drspouse do you have teenagers? The quantities they can consume is mind boggling. Especially if they are sporty/active.

DS1 has just come in from a bike ride (around 20 miles, with hills, average speed 19mph according to his fitness tracker app). He made lunch for himself - omelette made with 3 eggs, ham and cheese, two rounds of buttered toast, a whole tin of baked beans. He drank around 3/4 pint of milk with it, and then ate a banana and two plums. Of all the things he could be eating this is probably reasonably balanced - just crazy amounts!

stonecircle · 25/07/2016 14:27

Drspouse - if you've ever seen a 19 year old come in from a rugby match and reach for the milk carton, you'd know half a pint would barely touch the sides! He's at uni and does buy a 4 pint carton each day (though I doubt it's organic Grin).

And believe me, at 17 and 19, milk's not all they drink!!

Grittyshunts · 25/07/2016 14:41

Lol agree with those that have teenage sons! My DS eats like a horse can easily down a pint of milk in about 10 seconds and will still want more!!

BarbaraofSeville · 25/07/2016 14:44

I hope all these teenage sons are going to get good jobs to be able to pay for all this unlimited food consumption when they have to pay for it themselves, along with rent, bills, etc etc.

nightandthelight · 25/07/2016 14:45

They will slow down Barbara :)

JemimaMuddledUp · 25/07/2016 14:52

They won't be teenagers forever. At some point in the future they will stop growing, even if they carry on with all the sport.

Mind you DH still has a huge appetite at 50, and still has a 32" waist so clearly isn't overeating. So maybe DS1 will keep going...

Pisssssedofff · 25/07/2016 15:02

But DH pays for his own food no doubt

drspouse · 25/07/2016 15:09

drspouse do you have teenagers? The quantities they can consume is mind boggling. Especially if they are sporty/active.

No I don't, but I have seen them have pint-in-one competitions in the pub (both recently and when I was myself a teenager) and it's not one swig per half pint, it's just not putting it down or closing your mouth in between.

I believe they drink that much but I'm just not sure they need to be drinking that much organic milk per day at their parents' expense (our 2yo DD drinks a pint a day and is, er, pint sized, but she no longer gets given organic whole milk, she gets regular semi. Cos organic is expensive).

teaandcake789 · 25/07/2016 15:19

We spend about £60-£80 a week for a family of 7. though all the kids are 12 and under and we have 3 sons so I imagine once they hit teenage years it will probably double. still that will still be about £150. I told my MIL our weekly food budget and she was shocked as it was the same as hers for just herself and FIL.

FreedomIsInPeril · 25/07/2016 15:29

I don't know how you could feed a family of 7 for less than 80 pounds, even with food as cheap as you have over there. Don't they eat fruit, and fresh vegetables?

Dontlikejam · 25/07/2016 15:33

Which meals does that cover?

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 25/07/2016 15:53

Why are you comparing what a toddler drinks to a teen-ager?Confused when your toddler is a teen I hope you remember this thread and have a little chuckle .

I don't begrudge my boy milk, it's not like it's beer, fags and booze!

Werkz · 25/07/2016 16:16

These threads fascinate me. I really cannot see how some people spend so little.

We spend an average of £335 a month at the supermarket (Morrisons), so £84 a week for two adults and one cat. As the cat costs us about £6-ish a week, I'd say we spend £39 a week per adult, so around £5.50 a day per adult.

That spend includes one adult's food for every breakfast, lunch, dinner and snack seven days every week, plus their share our toiletries and household goods (we buy Morrisons own brand washing powder and shampoo for a £1 from bodycare). We only buy wine for cooking, so we will get a couple of cheap bottles every month, and we don't buy takeaways or ready-meals. We also don't throw food away; I simmer my veg peelings to make stock for casseroles and sauces.

So if I take the non-edible stuff out of the equation, which is about 10 percent of the bill, we are looking at an average of £5.35 a day per adult on food and drink. I really can't get this much lower without our diets becoming very carb heavy.

For example, I made two moussakas (with peppers and courgette instead of aubergine) yesterday out of 500g of minced beef: one was about three adult-sized dinner portions and the other two smaller "lunch-sized" portions, so long as we had those meals with a big salad.

The cost of these moussakas were ...

500g mince = £3
2 onions = 16p
one tin toms = 31p
garlic = 12p
fat to fry onions and beef = 12p
wine (quarter of bottle) = £1
stock cube = 10p
herbs and veg stock = zero (I grow my own herbs and make my own stock)
two red peppers and one yellow = 96p
three courgettes = £1.31
three large potatoes = 50p
pint of milk = 25p
70g cheese = 70p
(salt, pepper, nutmeg, cinnamon, juniper berries, cloves, allspice, cornflower all already in the cupboard)

The total cost of these moussakas was £8.53 and that is not accounting for the ingredients already in the cupboard or the cost of the herbs I grow myself (soil feed or repotting compost after the first year etc). As all together, they made five adult portions, that's £1.70 per adult portion just for the moussaka. Then there's the cost of the salad to go with it, which I would estimate at about 80p for the lettuce, 60p for the toms, and an extra 40p for cucumber and other gubbins so about £2 in all. Divided by five, that adds another 40p onto the cost of adult portion so we would be looking at £2.10 per adult portion.

And that £2.10 is just one medium-sized-ish dinner meal for one adult with no pudding or sweet for afters, though I could have got it down by 20p had I had skipped the wine.

But then there is the rest of the day's meals. A medium-sized jacket potato with 60g of tuna for lunch would cost about 75p per person. A couple of eggs for breakfast with two slices of supersaver own label toast would be about 50p pp, and take 50p pp out for drinks, and you are looking at spending £3.85 per adult person per day. We spend an extra £1.50 per person per day, which I think is reasonable and not in the least bit profligate. DH will often have three eggs for breakfast, we don't buy super saver bread, and both of us drink a lot of mineral water, for example.

But there seems to be people on mumsnet who feed and water teens or adults on less than £2 a day and I can't quite figure out how this is possible in terms of hitting nutritional targets, unless they are forgetting to account for breakfasts, lunches or dinners bought or eaten outside the home or eat a heck of a lot of dried pasta for every meal.

I remember looking at some of Jack Munroe's recipes back in the day and even they were based on the slightly bizarre notion that a reasonable meal for an adult could be 100g of cooked dried pasta with 75g of mushrooms and some oil and lemon juice and even then the total cost of the meal for one adult was about 85p.

hownottofuckup · 25/07/2016 16:18

I know someone who got their DTeens a freezer drawer with 'snacks' due to all the growing they were going to do and their 'healthy appetites'. Their teens got fat.
Milks a far better option.

drspouse · 25/07/2016 16:20

I'm not, and I don't "begrudge" my toddler milk either. I'm saying that because organic milk is so pricey, we don't fork out for it even for the smaller amount that she drinks. Or indeed for DH, me, or DS.

When I and my DB were teens we were not allowed to drink that much milk or (even with non-organic prices) we'd have bankrupted our parents. The didn't "begrudge" us drinking healthy drinks either - water, or sometimes milk, sometimes juice, was fine, I'm not sure the sugar-free squashes were available then so probably not those.

I have been a teenager (hard to become an adult without it) and known lots of teenagers. I have a younger brother and I know all about the hordes of teenage boys skulking round the house and eating the cupboards bare. My DM stocked up on cheap and filling at the time - I remember endless bowls of own brand cereal and bread and marge going into his room carried by a stream of boys like ants.

If over £200 a month on milk alone doesn't make a dent in your household budget, then that's very nice for you. It would in ours (and we are honestly not that poorly off).

Werkz · 25/07/2016 16:22

Sorry, to be clear ....

"there seem to be people on mumsnet who feed and water teens or adults on less than £2 per adult per day".

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 25/07/2016 16:26

Just trying to work out how much milk we get through... 5 of those big cartons, the 6 pinters. That's just for ds as I drink soya and dh just has a splash in coffee and rarely has cereal. I don't get organic anything though.

drspouse · 25/07/2016 16:26

Oops massive cross post.

Anyway on daily/meal budgets, we budget £1.80 per meal for our Brownie Pack Holiday or Guide Camp. This is almost all Sainsbury Basics (we could probably shop cheaper at Aldi but couldn't get it delivered or fit it in the car, possibly a bit cheaper at Asda but with a few special diets it's harder to get them catered for at Asda). We usually end up with loads left over (this year's lesson - far less bread). But this is more than many of the people here are quoting for a daily budget for a small family - remember we have economies of scale - 28 people on our last joint camp.

So I also think £2/DAY per person is very hard - especially with a small family.

Soleye · 25/07/2016 16:31

I have to admit never looked at what we spend on food- varies so much from week to week. If we have a dinner party can be £300 for that including wine. If no kids at home and not entertaining, hardly anything as me and dh on diets. Do people honestly know how much they spend on garlic?