to be annoyed at parents attitude

[yessir]

I have started to date a guy and the first question my parents asked was has he got money as I need stability and to not go with somebody who has a dead end job.
Its really upset me and I told them its not all about money.
My dad said in a joking way find out what his bank balance is.
I am really put out by their comments.
I tried to say I want somebody that I like and that makes me happy.
I feel so deflated.

[Gazelda]

OP do your parents bail you out most/every month?

[Pimmmms]

Gosh they're expensive cats. Did you buy them?

I think the money saving ideas are sensible. But firstly you need to identify why you spend like you do. What motivates you?