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For feeling so p*ssed off with DH!

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hereharehere33 · 26/06/2016 08:40

Hubby's gone back to his home town this weekend to see godparents who are poorly. He's taken our oldest DS (4yrs old). I've stayed at home with our youngest as we have animals to look after. Anyway, I called him yesterday morning, but other than that I heard nothing. I wanted to speak to DS before bed. After calling/texting, I got a short text at 9pm saying all ok and he'll try and call later. Nothing since. Its soo frustrating. He's obviously gone out, which is completely fine -his mum will be looking after DS - but why can't he just pop out of the pub for a second to call and let me know how everyone is. I've been worried about his godparents too. Its like he just can't find the time....?! Anyway, still nothing this morning and I'm feeling increasing grumpy!! Every time he goes away separately, it as if he forgets about me. AIBU??!

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Pearlman · 26/06/2016 10:12

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NoFuchsGiven · 26/06/2016 10:18

I hope he's enjoying his hangover and the long drive back with our DS!

You really hope he is hungover and having a long drive back with your child?

YABTotallyU on both counts.

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hereharehere33 · 26/06/2016 10:25

Pearlman thats exactly right. He goes away on a boys ski trip and I don't expect him to call, although the odd text is appreciated! I had asked him to let me know how things are, how DS is, and he said he would call. He still haven't heard from him.

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hereharehere33 · 26/06/2016 10:26

He's not driving back till late this evening - so I would assume that he will no longer be hungover....obviously

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hereharehere33 · 26/06/2016 10:30

...sorry posted too soon...obviously I would hope he wouldn't be driving if he wasn't ok. Guess those two points should have been separated out to make that clear!

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rainbowstardrops · 26/06/2016 10:40

I'd be annoyed too here. If he knows you're worrying how the godparents are and asking if DS is ok and he said he'd ring but hasn't then that's not on in my book. It only takes a couple of minutes for a quick phone call!

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trafalgargal · 26/06/2016 10:51

He may not want to discuss how the god parent is on the phone because either it's news he feels is more appropriate face to face or because he doesn't have the privacy to do so.

I have a mantra that my mobile is my servant ,I am not its slave . I don't really get this almost phobia like insistence that everyone needs to be instantly contactable every moment of every day.