Have NC for this as identifying - but I really want some perspective here as I'm furious and may act badly!
We live in EU country (south med holiday destination to give you an idea). DH, DC and I have been here 11 years. My parents also live nearby. DH and I both work and DC are fully bilingual - parents are retired. We had (as you can imagine) a vested interest in EU referendum and voted to Remain.
SIL (DH's sister) has been a very vocal Leave campaigner - think FB posts, doorstepping for the campaign, posters in window etc... She is ecstatic with the result and is gloating on FB (not at us directly)
Now I get on with SIL - we go through motions of presents, cards, sharing the odd email etc... When we are back in the UK we visit DH's parents and also visit SIL. I wouldn't choose her as a friend but I don't dislike her at all.
Anyway she has messaged me (not DH!) asking if now would be the right time to come out to visit. She has two younger DCs and her DH works away. She has not visited us in the past 11 years (despite being invited occasionally). Her message to me says "well given what's happened I was thinking we should come and visit before things change ... what do you think?"
Am I being stupid here? Does she mean shall she come now because we might not be able to live in X much longer (not the issue by the way - though it may impact on my elderly parents more as they get pension income in sterling) or is she asking for other reasons such as kids may be getting too old or something? I will ask her to clarify.
Either way would I be spiteful to say "jog on" - she has never been here before and her Brexit positioning has really left me with a sour taste. I am still angry at yesterday's result and feeling pretty vulnerable - I don't want to be rude but my gut instinct is to lash out. AIBU to ask what would you do?