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To think this house sitter was bloody cheeky?

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Littlefluffyclouds81 · 18/06/2016 23:38

My DM recently got a house sitter for 10 days whilst we all went on holiday. She had used her once before and all seemed fine. She seemed very professional - took detailed information about all the animals, signed contracts, she is fully insured etc.

She was supposed to sleep at my DM's house each night, although my DM was aware that she would need to pop back here and there to exercise her own dogs (she lives with her parents).

She was paid over £600, and for that she had to look after 2 dogs and feed a cat. There are also 2 horses at my mum's, my mum's horse who is a big cob, and my daughter's pony. She wasn't expected to do anything with the horses.

While we were away the house sitter emailed to ask if it would be ok if her partner's kids came to meet the horses. My DM said that was fine. When we got back, my mum had a good chat with her and the house sitter said that the kids had come over and groomed my mum's horse, but not my daughter's pony because she was grumpy (she is grumpy).

I was the first to go into the tack room, and noticed that the bridles weren't in the right place. I didn't really think anything of it. But today my DM said that there is grease on the bottom of her saddle, from where the saddle pad hasn't been put on properly and it has rubbed the horse, which she wouldn't do. Also her bridle had been done up all wrong. The stirrups on both saddles were at different lengths to how they'd been left by Us. She suspected that the house sitter had taken the kids riding on our horses. This was confirmed when she went for a ride around the village today and a neighbour (who has booked the same house sitter) said that the house sitter had emailed a picture with the kid sat on her horse!

Not only is riding someone's horses without their permission incredibly rude, it is also a really stupid thing to do. She knew nothing about our horses, they could have had any kind of quirks, and putting 2 kids on them (when she doesn't appear to know much about horses herself) was just bloody dangerous.

Not only that, but my DM said there's no way that the bed was slept in for 10 nights, so she suspects that the house sitter had left the dogs overnight which she wasn't supposed to do.

WWYD? I absolutely think that something should be said to the house sitter, but my DM is veering towards leaving it, and just locking the tack room if she uses her again! She was paid a lot of money, and in my opinion, took the piss.

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TheseLittleEarthquakes · 21/06/2016 12:33

I've got screenshots of the conversation if you would like them. Pm your email address and I'll send them over.

Sausagehead · 21/06/2016 12:39

I think she has been overpaying anyway. Seems like an awful lot of money for house sitting. I think she should definitely send an email with photo pointing out how dangerous it was.

SendTheNextOneIn · 21/06/2016 12:41

I'm horrified at hger behaviour, can't belive she thought she would get away with it. Posting pictures onher FB page is just ridiculous! Poor kitty Sad I'd certainly be going down the legal route to get her to face up to her errors.

With regards to the car analogy as mentioned above (two previous comments by separate posters copied below), cover to drive other cars under your own insurance policy is technically only valid if you have the owner's permission.

Apart from the fact it is illegal to drive a car without insurance- and I assume the OPs mother didn't insure her to drive the car, so if she did, she would be breaking the law.

Except she could be insured to drive any car with her own insurance. The illegal part would be taking the car without consent. If she could drive.

Littlefluffyclouds81 · 21/06/2016 12:45

Ah brilliant, thanks earthquake :)

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Mummyme1987 · 21/06/2016 12:46

I always thought it said on my insurance that I could drive any car lent to me. It wouldn't be lent it would be stolen/taken without consent. No way the insurance would be valid.

Mummyme1987 · 21/06/2016 12:47

Not that that has anything to do with this thread really! I can't believe the brazenness of her.

elastamum · 21/06/2016 12:47

I feel sorry for your mum OP, she has clearly been taken advantage of.

I use house sitters a lot as we have a very rural home with dogs and horses and I travel with work. After various experiences I have got to the point now where I always use a big agency - Animal Aunts - as they are 100% reliable, insured and it is their job to send the right people for the job. Usually I get the same 2-3 sitters that I now know well and they know the animals.They aren't cheap and your £100 per day isn't far off the mark usually £75-£100. But it is worth every penny for me to know the animals are safe and well cared for by knowledgeable people.

Littlefluffyclouds81 · 21/06/2016 13:10

I think next time mum needs a house sitter, I'll just put a post on here! The house sitter was so stupid fucking this up, it was the second time in 2 months my mum had used her. She got to get paid a lot of money to stay in a nice big house, in a nice location, she could use the hot tub, and all she really had to do was walk the dogs a couple of times a day.

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Arkengarthdale · 21/06/2016 13:46

Me! Next time! I love horses but don't ride so you'd be safe. Love dogs and cats too. And hot tubs Grin

DianaMitford · 21/06/2016 15:38

Could someone please pm me the details? I appear to have been missed out :(

pollymere · 21/06/2016 17:17

You need to say something. If I was in your situation, I'd also be demanding a partial refund but that's just my style. This is not acceptable. They were ina position of trust and betrayed that trust.

MintyChops · 21/06/2016 18:31

Me too Diana, could someone pm me....?

Queenbean · 21/06/2016 18:45

Isn't it such a coincidence!

All these people on here really needing a PM because they need a house sitter in the South West Country and also have horses and really need avoid the woman who house sat for OP's mum. You lot should all get together or something, you have so much in common!

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SouthWesterlyWinds · 21/06/2016 19:01

Hahaha! Not me Queenbean! But I do have two friends in the SW who have small holdings and another who has dogs and two horses that they were looking for housesitters which is why I asked but luckily my friends are in a different part of the SW.

I just have two cats and no holidays away 😂

ReginaldBlinker · 21/06/2016 19:01

Queenbean there are 5.34 million people who live in the South West of England - a handful of women who happen to live or know someone who lives in a rural area and owns animals and occasionally goes on holiday is not coincidental in the slightest, it's a completely normal occurance and I'm not sure why you're trying to pretend otherwise? Hmm

Queenbean · 21/06/2016 19:03

Seriously Reginald?! There are LOADS of people on here asking for PMs, I don't believe for a second that every one of them absolutely needs to know.

It wasn't a personal attack, just a humorous observation. No need for the Hmm

ReginaldBlinker · 21/06/2016 19:08

Queenbee there's always a need for Hmm - it's the best face.

Gabilan · 21/06/2016 19:10

I live in the south west with two cats and a horse. But I never go anywhere so I don't need a housesitter. So I haven't asked for a PM. It's a rural area and lots of people might want a housesitter to look after assorted animals though.

Littlefluffyclouds81 · 21/06/2016 19:14

Breaking news - my mum has found some damage on the back of the saddle that definitely wasn't there before. It's only minor...but still.

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Gabilan · 21/06/2016 19:47

Might be worth asking a saddler to check the tree's sound. They might have dropped the saddle. However, unless a similar check was done just before you went away, you won't be able to prove it was them.

GabsAlot · 21/06/2016 20:11

as gailan says u cant prove unfortunately that it was her-i would tell the solictior anyway but apart from maybe the bad review the saddle prob wont be on a court document

BeYourselfUnlessUCanBeAUnicorn · 21/06/2016 21:02

Being in the SW and knowing horsey people and people in the services is probably not uncommon. Grin

millimat · 21/06/2016 21:15

Saddles are so expensive too Sad Hope it's ok to use.

londonrach · 22/06/2016 07:20

Did your dm ever hear anything from her

RaisinBread · 22/06/2016 18:45

Any updates? OP?

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