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To think this house sitter was bloody cheeky?

818 replies

Littlefluffyclouds81 · 18/06/2016 23:38

My DM recently got a house sitter for 10 days whilst we all went on holiday. She had used her once before and all seemed fine. She seemed very professional - took detailed information about all the animals, signed contracts, she is fully insured etc.

She was supposed to sleep at my DM's house each night, although my DM was aware that she would need to pop back here and there to exercise her own dogs (she lives with her parents).

She was paid over £600, and for that she had to look after 2 dogs and feed a cat. There are also 2 horses at my mum's, my mum's horse who is a big cob, and my daughter's pony. She wasn't expected to do anything with the horses.

While we were away the house sitter emailed to ask if it would be ok if her partner's kids came to meet the horses. My DM said that was fine. When we got back, my mum had a good chat with her and the house sitter said that the kids had come over and groomed my mum's horse, but not my daughter's pony because she was grumpy (she is grumpy).

I was the first to go into the tack room, and noticed that the bridles weren't in the right place. I didn't really think anything of it. But today my DM said that there is grease on the bottom of her saddle, from where the saddle pad hasn't been put on properly and it has rubbed the horse, which she wouldn't do. Also her bridle had been done up all wrong. The stirrups on both saddles were at different lengths to how they'd been left by Us. She suspected that the house sitter had taken the kids riding on our horses. This was confirmed when she went for a ride around the village today and a neighbour (who has booked the same house sitter) said that the house sitter had emailed a picture with the kid sat on her horse!

Not only is riding someone's horses without their permission incredibly rude, it is also a really stupid thing to do. She knew nothing about our horses, they could have had any kind of quirks, and putting 2 kids on them (when she doesn't appear to know much about horses herself) was just bloody dangerous.

Not only that, but my DM said there's no way that the bed was slept in for 10 nights, so she suspects that the house sitter had left the dogs overnight which she wasn't supposed to do.

WWYD? I absolutely think that something should be said to the house sitter, but my DM is veering towards leaving it, and just locking the tack room if she uses her again! She was paid a lot of money, and in my opinion, took the piss.

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londonrach · 20/06/2016 12:15

Ive moved from the south west but like to know area too as have friends who use house sitters and did have a friend who was a house sitter years ago. He didnt get paid anything like your dm paid but enjoyed spending time with the dog (the cats were in and out and just needed feeding etc) in a beautiful part of the world whilst studying quietly. I know he stayed every night and took his responsibilities very seriously.

Littlefluffyclouds81 · 20/06/2016 12:29

I think I have PMd everyone who asked me to.

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DianaMitford · 20/06/2016 12:35

Good grief! It just keeps getting worse! So she basically did fuck all apart from ride the horses without permission.... This woman needs to be taken out of business

UnGoogleable · 20/06/2016 12:44

I'm shocked that if she was paid £600 to house sit, she didn't strip the bloody bed after she'd used it!

HelloHola · 20/06/2016 12:49

I didn't even know you could get professional house sitters Shock I'm in the wrong job, obviously.

I don't keep horses, so I'm not feeling up in arms about them having a ride. As long as the horses/children/equipment weren't harmed, I'd leave it.

scaryteacher · 20/06/2016 13:06

The cat was harmed by her neglect however - would you leave that too, and let her abuse someone else's trust, and hurt their animals?

HeartsTrumpDiamonds · 20/06/2016 13:17

I think her cushy "career" as a house sitter and pet minder are over.

Good riddance.

Willow2016 · 20/06/2016 13:37

HelloHola

The fact that they werent harmed isnt the point. The harm could have been lethal! The horses werent used to her and her family, all horses arent nice cuddly animals to just jump on when it suits someone! They all have different temperaments and need specific handling, they could have kicked, bit or bucked them off or tried to run away and hurt the riders and themselves.

They could have hurt the horses putting the bridle and sadle on incorrectly.

They had no right to use the riding clothes or hats either who the hell does all that without permission?

Damm sure I wouldnt be "leaving it".

Littlefluffyclouds81 · 20/06/2016 13:41

She's now got 3 of her friends to leave reviews on her Facebook page to bump her score up after I dragged it down with my 1 star one.

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scaryteacher · 20/06/2016 13:45

I think a solicitors letter to her and a letter to the professional association confirming the phone call earlier might be the way to go. Word of mouth will do lots of damage to her reputation as well.

SapphireStrange · 20/06/2016 13:49

God, the cat thing is awful. Sad You and your mum need to hang this person out to dry. I'd definitely get a solicitor on the case.

TheseLittleEarthquakes · 20/06/2016 13:50

Could you pm me her name please?

alphabettyspaghetty · 20/06/2016 13:57

please can you pm me her name? I was going to get a house sitter as we're away in September but I don't want to have this issue too.

MidnightRunner87 · 20/06/2016 14:08

Could you pm me details too please, I've been looking around for a sitter for a while and just want to check the ones I have listed aren't this one.

HuskyLover1 · 20/06/2016 14:15

Surely she must be licensed by the Council to do this job? I know that dog home boarders have to be licensed. And within the terms of that license, dogs cannot be left for over 3 hours alone. I would find this out, ask for some money back and threaten to report her to the council should she refuse.

GarlicSteak · 20/06/2016 14:43

Husky - No.

Q: What is a premises licence?
A: A premises licence is required if you board 1 or more pets in your home..

Q: So, I don’t need one if I house sit or just offer dog walking?
A: No you don’t. A premises licence is only necessary if you board animals in your home.

suziechan · 20/06/2016 14:46

So sorry to hear of your cat and hope your horses are ok.

Please can you Pm me too? My family are looking for housesitters at the moment and I'm shocked by everything you've said.

Please let us know how you get on. I don't really have any advice but think solicitors is the best way to go now

TheseLittleEarthquakes · 20/06/2016 15:48

I've had a look at her Facebook page and I think the way she's responded to you is disgusting. Would your mum be prepared to post on there, as she said she'd only talk to her? I think the cat issue needs mentioning as well.

DianaMitford · 20/06/2016 16:10

I've just seen that you're in the south west!!! We have a house sitter booked in Sept down there Sad Another one saying can you PM me the name please??

CiderwithBuda · 20/06/2016 16:35

Can I have a PM too please when you get the chance? Also south west and book house sitters.

Littlefluffyclouds81 · 20/06/2016 17:14

I will pm everyone who's asked when I'm back home. My mum is leaving it to see if she gets in touch before leaving any reviews or comments. And I think she should mention the cat, but she feels totally responsible for him. She thinks she should have just had him put down before we went, as it was going to happen in the not too distant future anyway. But he was there, enjoying the sun, catching mice, eating his food...so she didn't. But it did leave the house sitter in a bit of an unfair position, as he could have taken a turn at any minute (which is what happened), and leaving her to be the one to make the decision about what to do about it perhaps wasn't something that should be expected of a house sitter.

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Littlefluffyclouds81 · 20/06/2016 17:16

And she has blocked me from making any more comments on my review on her Facebook page! Anyone would think she had something to hide or something. Luckily for me though, I have more than one Facebook account.

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millimat · 20/06/2016 17:25

Pm me her name and I'll leave a review on her Facebook pageWink

PerspicaciaTick · 20/06/2016 17:26

There is a difference between a house sitters who unfortunately finds themselves having to make a difficult decision about the treatment of a pet, and a housesitter who remains blithely oblivious to the suffering of a pet because she wasn't there and didn't give a shit.

Kusstard · 20/06/2016 17:28

Talk about first world problems.......

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