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To think this house sitter was bloody cheeky?

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Littlefluffyclouds81 · 18/06/2016 23:38

My DM recently got a house sitter for 10 days whilst we all went on holiday. She had used her once before and all seemed fine. She seemed very professional - took detailed information about all the animals, signed contracts, she is fully insured etc.

She was supposed to sleep at my DM's house each night, although my DM was aware that she would need to pop back here and there to exercise her own dogs (she lives with her parents).

She was paid over £600, and for that she had to look after 2 dogs and feed a cat. There are also 2 horses at my mum's, my mum's horse who is a big cob, and my daughter's pony. She wasn't expected to do anything with the horses.

While we were away the house sitter emailed to ask if it would be ok if her partner's kids came to meet the horses. My DM said that was fine. When we got back, my mum had a good chat with her and the house sitter said that the kids had come over and groomed my mum's horse, but not my daughter's pony because she was grumpy (she is grumpy).

I was the first to go into the tack room, and noticed that the bridles weren't in the right place. I didn't really think anything of it. But today my DM said that there is grease on the bottom of her saddle, from where the saddle pad hasn't been put on properly and it has rubbed the horse, which she wouldn't do. Also her bridle had been done up all wrong. The stirrups on both saddles were at different lengths to how they'd been left by Us. She suspected that the house sitter had taken the kids riding on our horses. This was confirmed when she went for a ride around the village today and a neighbour (who has booked the same house sitter) said that the house sitter had emailed a picture with the kid sat on her horse!

Not only is riding someone's horses without their permission incredibly rude, it is also a really stupid thing to do. She knew nothing about our horses, they could have had any kind of quirks, and putting 2 kids on them (when she doesn't appear to know much about horses herself) was just bloody dangerous.

Not only that, but my DM said there's no way that the bed was slept in for 10 nights, so she suspects that the house sitter had left the dogs overnight which she wasn't supposed to do.

WWYD? I absolutely think that something should be said to the house sitter, but my DM is veering towards leaving it, and just locking the tack room if she uses her again! She was paid a lot of money, and in my opinion, took the piss.

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scaryteacher · 19/06/2016 22:56

Exactly Masketti - that poor cat.

TotalConfucius · 19/06/2016 22:58

This sounds like a nightmare. As much as your DM seems like a rather passive and non-conf person, she mustn't keep quiet or use this pet sitter again and really ought to do her utmost to ensure that no-one else does! £600!
I am having 3 dogs, 2 ducks, budgie, gerbil, outdoor aviary, allotment and house all minded in August by sitters from a national agency, with insurance, back-up and all that good stuff. £521 all in for 9 days.

scaryteacher · 19/06/2016 22:58

Where in the SW OP? I'd like to avoid her in the future.

BeYourselfUnlessUCanBeAUnicorn · 19/06/2016 23:00

Wow, she really isn't going to accept any responsibility for this one is she!

What a poor house sitter even aside from the horses. What did she actually do?

Littlefluffyclouds81 · 19/06/2016 23:04

My mum definitely isn't passive or non confrontational! She tore the house sitter a new one this morning.

I'll PM you, scaryteacher.

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HeartsTrumpDiamonds · 19/06/2016 23:05

The horses are really, really bad but a dead cat is worse Sad

scaryteacher · 19/06/2016 23:07

Thanks LittlefluffyClouds.

LazySusan11 · 19/06/2016 23:07

Where in SW op, I am looking for a cat sitter I don't want it to be her!

Vixyboo · 19/06/2016 23:11

I have two cats.

If anyone knowingly let my cats suffer I would not be responsible for my actions!

Horrible woman.

PerspicaciaTick · 19/06/2016 23:16

So...
she rode the horses without permission;
didn't let the dog out often enough;
allowed the cat's condition to worsen without seeking vet's advice.

Was there anything she did do successfully as a housesitter?

Surely the whole point of paying her was to ensure that the various animals were cared for appropriately while your DM was away. Which she seems to have failed to do on every level.

Littlefluffyclouds81 · 19/06/2016 23:18

Have PM'd you LazySusan.

I don't think she did do a lot right no. She must be laughing all the way to the bank.

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SoleBizzz · 19/06/2016 23:23

I would charge £25 a day and think I was rich Grin I would be the best house sitter ever too.

sleeponeday · 19/06/2016 23:28

Please could you PM me as well, OP? This is making me twitch too.

Littlefluffyclouds81 · 19/06/2016 23:31

Yep will do.

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CraftyPenguin · 19/06/2016 23:33

Fucking hell. This gets worse and worse. The horses was bad enough but your poor dm's cat :( Flowers

GarlicSteak · 19/06/2016 23:39

My mum asked her if she had noticed the smell, and she said 'oh yeah, I could smell something but didn't know where it was coming from'.

This is incredible. House sitters are usually expected to notice anything amiss, identify and deal with it, surely?!

Not to mention that she was supposed to be looking after the pets. And it's very plain she didn't.

hollinhurst84 · 19/06/2016 23:44

Bonkers (her, not the OP)
I house sit occasionally and have horses, look after dogs, cats etc
I had one where everything went wrong, the dog got hit by a quad bike, the horse had an allergic reaction, another went lame, the yearling decided to go on an escape spree at 1am. I got the vet and sorted the lot
For that money I would house sit, muck both out, and do everything else!

Someone rode my horse when I was away for two days. I got back to a report they had been cantering him around the field - I had left strict instructions he wasn't to leave the stable as he was lame and on box rest. Fury was not the word

scaryteacher · 20/06/2016 00:00

If you look at her website, as opposed to her fb page, it says she is a member of NARPS www.narpsuk.co.uk, and her business is on their site. Might be worth contacting them, and leaving a very negative review with them as well.

Littlefluffyclouds81 · 20/06/2016 00:05

Yes, we will be contacting them tomorrow and spilling the beans. My mum said she will put a review on that site.

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DuckAndPancakes · 20/06/2016 00:06

Wow.

How fucking awful =\ MIL does a lot of house sitting and is also very much a horsey person with A LOT of experience. This would leave her absolutely reeling, especially given the money handed over.

so sorry for what happened to your poor Mums animals, OP :( and how much your trust in people has probably been knocked.

Littlefluffyclouds81 · 20/06/2016 00:14

Thanks Duck. Yes it's awful that she was betrayed so badly. Nothing makes me crosser than animals being mistreated.

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shadowfax07 · 20/06/2016 00:47

Littlefluffy could you PM me too please? Thanks.

FasterThanASnakeAndAMongoose · 20/06/2016 06:13

Oh my god, this is awful. The horse thing is bad enough but the cat thing is worse. Poor poor cat SadAngry

Please would you pm me too? I'm also in the south west and want to make sure I never use her.

honeylulu · 20/06/2016 06:40

Omg the poor cat! That is terrible!
BTW I presumed you were using menage as an abbreviation of menagerie (collection of animals). Hadn't heard of manege before. I've learned something new.

WellErrr · 20/06/2016 06:53

So she killed the cat but you were so angry that the tack room had been left open and the stirrups changed that that's what you posted about?

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