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Upstairs neighbour's kid !!!

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RebelRogue · 10/06/2016 18:09

My upstairs neighbours let their (nearly 2yo i think?!?) play on the balcony unsupervised. Every now and then the mum will shout "x noooo...nooo...NO!" But not actually do anything else. He throws balls,clothes,dummies,sand(my balcony is full of it) and anything else he can get his hands on in my garden. I normally just throw/give it back and didn't want to make too much fuss. Today i was on the balcony having a fag,feet on the rail when water started falling down and got my feet wet.Again the mum was just nooo..nooo. I got up and looked....he was bloody peeing!! On my feet!! I went totally mad and told her to watch her kid properly and that from now on,all the shit that's theirs in my garden goes straight in the bin. AIBU.

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missbishi · 11/06/2016 17:36

I can't understand this "...but he's only a kid" attitude either. Yes, kids will be kids. That's why parents need to be parents.

Iknownuffink · 11/06/2016 17:51

I hope you follow through and bin everything he tosses over the balcony.

She must be aware that he's taking thing out to the balcony and they are disappearing.

TowerRavenSeven · 11/06/2016 17:56

Yanbu! I'd keep their stuff he chucks out. He is not being properly supervised.

RebelRogue · 11/06/2016 18:01

Iknownuffink already done,just bagged it and binned it with the rest of the balcony rubbish.

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Gileswithachainsaw · 11/06/2016 18:06

I'm. surprised no one has commented on all the chocolate and fruits dhoots Grin

no wonder they leave him out on the balcony Grin

RebelRogue · 11/06/2016 18:08

Gileswithachainsaw maybe a greggs wrapper was needed? Grin

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Zaurak · 11/06/2016 18:11

Jeez, letting a two year old play on the balcony alone is doing your best? No it bloody isn't, it's an accident waiting to happen. Friends of ours left their 9 month old, non crawling baby on a mat in the living room and in the sixty seconds it took to make a cuppa, the kid was three shelves up the bookcase and still climbing. Leaving a toddler on a balcony is irresponsible in the extreme. It's not doing your best, it's shit parenting.

Not sure I'd bin toys (I'm soft) but I'd certainly not be in a hurry to give them back.

RebelRogue · 11/06/2016 18:12

But yeah the sweets/ chocolates are another issue. It's happened before,and while dd is 4 and knows not to eat anything off the ground , i just don't like it lol.

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Gileswithachainsaw · 11/06/2016 18:13

So he eats crap all day and is left on the balcony....

RebelRogue · 16/06/2016 17:30

Newest thing. Now i'm really pissed!!

Upstairs neighbour's kid !!!
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MumOnTheRunCatchingUp · 16/06/2016 17:38

she needs reporting to social services!!

plastique · 16/06/2016 17:46

Oh come on do you really need to ask?? NO that is not ok!!!
Next time... 'Oi you up there, ffs!! You're kid's peeing on me!!'
Sorted

borntohula · 16/06/2016 17:53

This child and his "parent" sound absolutely bloody revolting. jesus, i hope you don't have kids... he's a toddler ffs

borntohula · 16/06/2016 17:54
MumOnTheRunCatchingUp · 16/06/2016 17:54

op has told them repeatedly though......there has been many a "next time"

borntohula · 16/06/2016 17:55

LitraMine even

RebelRogue · 16/06/2016 17:58

Born no worries i did too to know exactly how pissed off i should be

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borntohula · 16/06/2016 18:00

Rebel it does kind of suggest that the sweets belong to her, rather than her DS though... Wink

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