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AIBU re: sandwiches

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ItsBritneyBitchhh · 27/05/2016 22:18

My friend is turning 30 soon and one of her work colleagues, let's call her Lucy, but I don't really know her, has organised an afternoon tea for a group of us to celebrate.

For a bit of background, Lucy took our money for the Afternoon Tea upfront (fine by me) and booked an offer using some kind of voucher for a fancy place. It does state clearly on the voucher that it is a 'set' afternoon tea and dietary requirements or requests cannot be catered for.

However, Lucy will only eat plain cheese sandwiches. Cheddar sandwiches. Not cream cheese, or Feta which are both on the menu, just cheddar. Cheddar is mentioned nowhere on the menu. The venue has said it is set menu and alterations cannot be made under any circumstances as its terms and conditions and advised at time of booking. I think maybe they are being awkward. Lucy is very cross about this and the way she feels she has been treated over the cheese sandwiches so now wants to cancel the whole event, which is not her celebration anyway.

AIBU to think that as a grown woman you should just eat the bits you like fill up on scones and champagne and get over yourself?!

Sorry for the rant, I can't deal with the melodramatics over cheesesandwichgate as it is now know.

OP posts:
LunaLoveg00d · 28/05/2016 18:02

thing is in a catering establishment that deals with all these requirements usually anyway then all these things should surely be on the premesis.

yes, again I agree. But when you're getting a cheap deal with a Groupon or something similar you have to stick to the terms and conditions. OP said these were clearly stated as set menu, no changes. And this Lucy now wants to make changes. That's not the deal.

If she wants her cheddar she has to pay full price for her afternoon tea.

Gileswithachainsaw · 28/05/2016 18:06

clearly they are far more trouble than.they are worth.

an excuse to flog all the unpopular stuff no one really wants and dress it up as an amazing deal.

think I'd rather pay full price tbh.

Tatiana11235 · 28/05/2016 18:11

Lucy is a knob. Lucy should have thought about it before booking. Lucy shouldn't have just presumed the cafe will oblige. So Lucy can suck it up.

wizzywig · 28/05/2016 18:16

I dont like lucy. Cant you lock her in the toilets or something

FeelingSmurfy · 19/08/2016 11:12

So what happened?

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