He's had complicated surgery for a long term condition and is in a lot of pain. Constant morphine going and it's still not hitting the spot.
He's basically immobile and unable to eat. So all things considered I understand he's not going to be at his best. I'm spending all the 6 hours of visiting time by his side and feel like I'm being constantly picked at, snapped at and told off by him.
He's a heavy smoker and is having to do without completely which doesn't help.
Yesterday after being once again snarled at (for refusing to wheel him out for a fag) I just left early and said I shouldn't be spoken to like this. He texted a sort of apology later on. Saying 'sorry you left on a bad note, grumpy old me'.
Given the circumstances should I just accept he's going to be a grumpy git or should I not put up with it?