AIBU to be gutted by this comment DH has made?

[Kismet123]

I'm coming towards the end of my pregnancy... I'm 38+4.

This morning, when I was getting out of the shower - DH goes "gosh, you're boobs are actually pretty saggy!" Then laughed and just carried on, I don't think he meant it in an awful way, or to offend. However, I'm upset, that has upset me as he knows I'm feeling self conscious of my body right now. Am I just being hormonal and taking too much offence?

Id love to be a fly on the wall in disgraces bedroom, very creative with his dw nipples.

When DS was a few days old I was wearing DH's boxer's instead of my skimpies which pressed on my C/S wound. DH said "god you look awful" as I wandered around the bedroom in just the pants It really hurt my feelings, though he claims he didn't say it / can't remember. DS is 18 now & it still hurts me to think about it.

Some things are best left unsaid

"Well won't matter to you cos you won't be coming near these babies for a long long time. And your Cock seemed to have shrunk"

Next time he gets out the shower say oh wow isn't your cock tiny or I hadn't realised how saggy your nuts are.

He's being very unreasonable and not nice!

jeez why are men so thoughtless?! They always seem to get at the one thing women are the most insecure about.

Definitely would tell him to keep his hands away from your "saggy" boobs in the future and you'll keep your hands away from his shrivelled shrimp.

My response would be, "your balls sack is looking saggier too, isn't it funny how it makes your cock look even smaller".

Not taking too much offence at all, my husband would be ball-less if he made any comments like that
Go on sex strike as a result of his insensitive comments making you self conscious

You poor thing. The word 'saggy' is never used in a positive way.

I'd be fuming.

Tell him that you have thought about what he said and on consideration he will be doing all the bottle feeds and you will expect him to transfer the money to your account for a boob job - money which you will, of course, spend on something far more fun.

Should have said "alright, pipe down pencil dick!"

Why on earth didn't you take his head off then and there? "What the hell is wrong with you?" would have been s a good opener.

About 1% of people in the world have total body confidence. Telling a naked woman, especially a heavily pregnant naked woman, that her breasts look saggy is cruel at worst and tactless at best. But even a lack of tact isn't an excuse really.

YANBU. What a cock.

Horrible thing to say. I'd definitely be mirroring his behaviour by telling him how saggy his balls suddenly look....

Tell him he can carry the next one and birth it through his cock, and see how his body copes.

YANBU. That is an insensitive comment to make and I strongly believe lessons should be taught here - talks/chats are useless; men have to know what it feels like.
So next time you're going to have sex and trusting copulation gets underway, head-tilt and ask if he's 'in'

I had similar too...on holiday when pregnant with DC 1, when about 5-6 months pregnant. I walked out of the bathroom naked and DP, tipsy, piped up 'ooh, everything's gone south hasn't it'?

(On a point of accuracy, I was a size 10-12 and was all bump, and I rather liked my pregnant figure). Added to the fact that he wouldn't have sex with me when I was pregnant....

I just stood there and gave him the 'what the fuck' response and look. He apologised, and luckily I'm pretty confident about my body, but I still remember it.

What are you going to do to him OP?

"All the better to suffocate you with, my dear"

Or, "Yeah? Well you're a prick but I can put a bra on"

Most boobs over a certain size 'sag'. They're heavy and they'd look ridiculous stuck straight out like a blow up doll. He's an idiot.

Also, has he looked at his ballsack in the mirror lately?