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Mother sues for £20k for being discouraged from bf while the wave machine was on

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sizeofalentil · 02/05/2016 12:54

Daily Mirror link to the story here.

I'm totally for breastfeeding wherever and whenever, but I wouldn't want to eat my sandwiches in a swimming pool - they are so germy, like a human soup, so not sure a swimming pool with a wave machine on would be the best place to bf. Plus, obviously in this case there was the waves.

I realise that getting out of the water, especially if she had other kids, with a hungry baby would be a massive faff, but wouldn't the wave machine splash the baby and make it choke?

Serious question: AIBU to think this? Is bf in a swimming pool a done thing? Genuinely curious.

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Youarentkiddingme · 02/05/2016 16:47

Totally agree that what seems to be the case here is that she was offered a chair rather than told to stop. This has come from a witness.

katystar · 02/05/2016 16:47

What makes it worse is I've been to the swimming pool in question and it's absolutely filthy and when the waves are on its mad loads of kids running in and out. So the chance of the poor baby choking or getting hurt are quite high the life guard was totally in the right to suggest she moved onto a chair!

Janeymoo50 · 02/05/2016 16:47

Do people actually breastfeed in an actual swimming pool (waves or not! ), but in the water? Surely that's not the most comfortable/appropriate place to nurse your child anyway.

I think breastfeeding is great but surely in the water at a pool is not really on. Would she feed her baby waist deep in the sea?

Rosae · 02/05/2016 16:47

Repeat offender is not exactly correct. She has not sued anyone previously. And i would wager that there are many breastfeeders who have been in positions where they could, should or have complained multiple times. Remember not all you read in a newspaper is fact!

Jasonandyawegunorts · 02/05/2016 16:48

It's very rare for a thread to be so unanimous.

unimagmative13 · 02/05/2016 16:53

Some pro feeding activists take things to a whole other level. Yes fight for more awareness of public feeding but this just makes a mockery of that.

What's the 20k for? Was she too offended that she can never BF again and claiming for the all the illnesses her and her child may get?

SoupDragon · 02/05/2016 16:56

Rosae are you the woman in the article(s)?

WhoTheFuckIsSimon · 02/05/2016 16:56

Birds, no sorry it was just the word lactivist which gets my hackles up a bit. I only included the word vegan as that's the phrase she used. I have nothing against vegans, Dh is vegan.

Describe yourself as pro breastfeeding or someone who campaigns for breastfeeding rights, etc. But the word lactivist seems ime to be used by people like this who are slightly bonkers and love seeking out perceived injustice where there is t any.

shazzarooney999 · 02/05/2016 16:58

bloodyteenagers , so she is in the paper again? the same one?it was found that she was lying about Primark, utterly disgusting, what an awful awful woman!!!!! hideous!

Sparklingbrook · 02/05/2016 16:58

Yes just the word 'lactivist' is Hmm makes me think-breastfeeder looking for trouble.

unimagmative13 · 02/05/2016 17:01

Just had a sneak on the Instagram - she got her son a nipple/Boobie cake for his first birthday. If natural term weaning won't be rememberable enough that sure will!

Jasonandyawegunorts · 02/05/2016 17:02

is she the one who was lying about the "indian security gaurd snatching her baby" whiel she breast fed in primark?

PinkyOfPie · 02/05/2016 17:04

Jason no that lady got a suspended sentence I think! Not the same woman

WanderingNotLost · 02/05/2016 17:04

I'm all for breastfeeding in public, but not in a swimming pool. Nobody else is allowed to eat their lunch in the pool (and with good reason) what makes babies any different?

SoupDragon · 02/05/2016 17:05

Primark was a different person.

Aeroflotgirl · 02/05/2016 17:07

Looking at her Instagram she sounds very attention seeking and smacks look at me how wonderful I am, so superior type thing. So I wod not be surprised. Quite attention seeking.

mynamesnotMa · 02/05/2016 17:08

Ffs people like her enjoy just getting everyone else to jump to her unreasonable demands. This has nothing to do with needing to feed her baby.

Beepbopboop · 02/05/2016 17:12

I think feeding in a swimming pool is absolutely disgusting and dangerous! Breast milk can transmit diseases just like any other bodily fluid.
I'm pretty sure babies shouldn't even be in a wave pool anyway.

Aeroflotgirl · 02/05/2016 17:14

Oh god just seen the boobie cake for her ds, my goodness, she does little to promote bf and all to perpetuate the negative stereotypes of bf mothers. All I have met are lovely normal ladies.

shazzarooney999 · 02/05/2016 17:15

Love the comment in the paper, it said (next time i fancy a kfc i will take it in the pool with me) thought that was funny.

Sparklingbrook · 02/05/2016 17:15

YY babies should not be in the pool when the wave machine is on. There doesn't have to be a sign because it's obvious and common sense.

Jasonandyawegunorts · 02/05/2016 17:17

Oh god just seen the boobie cake for her ds, my goodness, she does little to promote bf and all to perpetuate the negative stereotypes of bf mothers. All I have met are lovely normal ladies.

Maybe she is against breastfeeding and promoting the negative sterotype as a way to make breastfeeders look bad.

fourcorneredcircle · 02/05/2016 17:18

I used to teach her... Funnily enough she did once say to me "you can't touch me, I'll sue you" as I herded herald others along a corridor during a fire alarm...

MistressMerryWeather · 02/05/2016 17:24

In-tor-esting...

Roussette · 02/05/2016 17:24

That about sums it up four. Stupid entitled daft woman.

I'd like to know what the £20,000 is for. Amazing you can sue for £20K for someone offering you a chair and thinking of your baby's safety.

Imagine her reaction if a wave had knocked her and baby over. She would've sued for being allowed in there in the first place.

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