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To ask you how you say the letter 'H'???

245 replies

NowSissyThatWalk · 30/04/2016 18:24

Okay.
So this may have been done to death, but I am a woman close to the edge.
I pronounce the letter H as 'Aitch', not
pronouncing any 'H' sound at the start.
I have always been told this is the 'right' way to pronounce it, and so it's stuck.
But I seem to never hear anyone ever saying it like this and instead pronounce the 'H', as 'Haitch'.
I can't take much more of it. My DP says 'Haitch' and corrects me every time I don't.
I should LTB shouldn't I????

OP posts:
knitknack · 01/05/2016 15:29

Can we also put the word 'thing' which CLEARLY ends in a 'g' being pronounced 'think' to general discussion??! Drives me bonkers!

FayKorgasm · 01/05/2016 15:33

Elendon the Normans arrived over expecting a sort of Not tonight pal from the bouncers but when they arrived they got a stamp for a free drink at the bar. And sure the craic was mighty so they made it their local.

MaudGonneMad · 01/05/2016 15:36

Haitchers gonna haitch Grin

albertcampionscat · 01/05/2016 15:38

'Haitch' in books used to be a way of showing that a character was working class, while 'Aitch' was seen as the posh 'proper' way of pronouncing it. I would imagine that both are considered correct now.

A bit like Mrs Tiggywinkle's 'becoz' - I guess in Beatrix Potters' time posh people actually pronounced the 'cause' in 'because' as, well, 'cause'. Now it just looks weird because no one does.

squoosh · 01/05/2016 15:39

Fay your version of events is far more entertaining than that ould Robert Kee's!

Grin
Elendon · 01/05/2016 15:47

Love it Fay!

The Norweigan Vikings saw Dubh Linn (black water), Viking words assimulated to the Gaelic, as their Valhalla, and indeed recent archeological finds near Kilmainham seem to corroborate this. Also their are lots of Irish surnames directly linked to Norwegian. My patrilineal line has a direct lineage to Norman, and Danish.

FayKorgasm · 01/05/2016 15:50

Kee would be a bit too long winded for this thread Grin.

Maud you might make some people all homocidal with that. Wink

Hulababy · 01/05/2016 15:51

I say aitch though grew up saying haitch at school and home. I learned it was haitch whilst doing teacher training infact despite going through education to university level befirehand.

I teach 'aitch'

Can't say haitch particularly bothers me though.

Hulababy · 01/05/2016 15:56

When I was growing up, I was taught that if a British person said 'haitch' it was a sign of being uneducated and a bit thick

:( How awful. And yes, definitely snobbish and thinking oneself is better than others. It's nothing to do with education and far more to do with where in the country you come from!

FayKorgasm · 01/05/2016 15:57

Elendon I was watching Walking on Cars music video for Speeding cars and its a haunting throwback to Irish and Viking customs.
If you haven't seen it take a look but beware you will be singing the song for dsys.

Hulababy · 01/05/2016 15:59

I gee up
In Doncaster saying Haitch.
I live in Sheffield and most people appear to say Haitch.
I teach in Sheffield and teach Aitch

CheesyWeez · 01/05/2016 16:12

I asked my son's phonics teacher why he says "Haitch" (he was not an English speaker when he started learning phonics with her).
She said it is in their jolly phonics program, the children hold their palms in front of their mouths and when they say "Haitch" they feel the HUH sound on their palms.
They don't feel it if they say "Aitch".

I say Aitch.
50 yo Home counties woman, and I say the T in often, but not in soften.

LindyHemming · 01/05/2016 16:24

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SukeyTakeItOffAgain · 01/05/2016 16:25

There is no parallel with "could of" etc whatsoever.

Natsku · 01/05/2016 16:25

I say haitch except for when its in the middle like NHS, then I say a aitch. I suppose I learnt it from my parents and my mum's a bloody linguist!

derxa · 01/05/2016 16:28

If they're learning phonics why are they saying "haitch"? They should just be learning the sounds at the moment, not letter names Exactly
/h/ is the letter sound aitch is the letter name

debbietheduck · 01/05/2016 16:48

I think some of the explanations on here cast interesting light on why people continue to defend saying haitch even when they have had it explained to them that it's wrong.

Unlike most mispronunciations, which are simply mistakes, this one seems to be freighted with political meaning, because of some of the historical associations (e.g. with a similar Irish letter which really is correctly pronounced haysh or similar). So thanks for the historical info, that makes a certain amount of sense it's still wrong though.

In the case of the OP though I think it's a bit rich of your DP to correct you when you are the one getting right so yes you should LTB. Grin

Elendon · 01/05/2016 16:59

Aa, bee, see, dee, ee, eff, gee, haitch, Iy, jay, kay ell, em, en, oh, pee.

Cue, arr, ess, tee, you, vee, double u, axe, why, zee

MaudGonneMad · 01/05/2016 16:59

I think some of the explanations on here cast interesting light on why people continue to defend saying haitch even when they have had it explained to them that it's wrong.

Yes, where would we Irish savages be without English people like you to civilise us?

LindyHemming · 01/05/2016 17:01

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FayKorgasm · 01/05/2016 17:04

Cromwell took everything but he will not take our now-anglicised-form-of-Haysch Haitch.
Braveheart 2 Rise of the Huh Aitch.

FayKorgasm · 01/05/2016 17:07

We'd be still in caves bate-ing each other with hurley sticks Maud .

Elendon · 01/05/2016 17:07

Saying haitch is not wrong. Debbietheduck

You need to listen. And learn. But perhaps starting a sentence with a conjunction is going to send you over the edge?

squoosh · 01/05/2016 17:18

Will we get Mel Gibson back for Rise of the Huh Haitch? He seems to have gone slightly off the boil. i.e madder than a farmer's wife at a Michael Guiney's sale.

FayKorgasm · 01/05/2016 17:21

Ah sure a cup a tae and a hang sangwidge and he'll be grand.

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