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To ask you how you say the letter 'H'???

245 replies

NowSissyThatWalk · 30/04/2016 18:24

Okay.
So this may have been done to death, but I am a woman close to the edge.
I pronounce the letter H as 'Aitch', not
pronouncing any 'H' sound at the start.
I have always been told this is the 'right' way to pronounce it, and so it's stuck.
But I seem to never hear anyone ever saying it like this and instead pronounce the 'H', as 'Haitch'.
I can't take much more of it. My DP says 'Haitch' and corrects me every time I don't.
I should LTB shouldn't I????

OP posts:
Nanny0gg · 01/05/2016 12:31

It only matters if you think correct English matters, I suppose. I think it does.

I agree.

Elle80 · 01/05/2016 12:32

Absolutely "aitch."

It's also har-rass not harris Hmm

DadOnIce · 01/05/2016 12:38

Haitchers set my teeth on edge.

Ask your local or resident Haitcher how they pronounce the abbreviations for National Health Service or Ultra Heat Treated or British Home Stores.

Kennington · 01/05/2016 12:39

I never knew the sectarian thing so am surprised by this.
I don't hear haitch much though, I did think it was just a regional thig but wasn't exactly sure from where.

geekaMaxima · 01/05/2016 12:40

It only matters if you think correct English matters, I suppose. I think it does.

No. It only matters if you subscribe to the xenophobic view that some dialects of a language are inherently superiors to others.

Given that the aitch/haitch distinction breaks across national, religious, and class lines, insisting that "aitch" is a superior pronunciation is therefore inherently racist (yes, that is the correct term for discrimination based on nationality as well as religion: check the Equality Act) and/or classist.

It's fine to say that either aitch or haitch sounds a bit weird to you because you only ever hear the other pronunciation. It's not fine to say that haitch is wrong, awful, uneducated, a bit thick, lower class, or anything else derogatory: that's where it becomes racist and/or classist.

MaudGonneMad · 01/05/2016 12:45

Ask your local or resident Haitcher how they pronounce the abbreviations for National Health Service or Ultra Heat Treated or British Home Stores.

Enn-Haitch-Ess.

You-Haitch-Tee.

Bee-Haitch-Ess.

LindyHemming · 01/05/2016 12:56

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EastMidsMummy · 01/05/2016 13:01

Aitch is Standard English and what I say. Haitch is Irish English. Say what you like, but it's pretty odd if you're English and using Irish English pronunciation. Why would you do that??

HeteronormativeHaybales · 01/05/2016 13:08

I say aitch. (EastMidsMummy, I think you mean 'standard British/UK English' in this instance, not standard English as opposed to Irish English!).

Someone further up put 'haitch' into the same category as the dreadful 'would of'. Not at all. 'Haitch' is essentially a regional variation, 'would of' is an incorrect written rendering of a colloquial pronunication.

Yoksha · 01/05/2016 13:09

Aitch here. I think it might be difficult when dealing with colloquialisms.

wasonthelist · 01/05/2016 13:09

DH says "jie" (to rhyme with pie") for J - does that enrage people?

I love hearing that - first heard it in Glasgow and was totally amazed.

What about American "zee" for Z?
Don't mind it when I am in the US - less of a fan when it's here although it seems very prevalent here - I've (to reference and earlier post) even heard that on BBC radio too.

wasonthelist · 01/05/2016 13:11

'Haitch' is essentially a regional variation,

Except as we've demonstrated in this thread, people using each version are scattered all over mainland Britain.

HeteronormativeHaybales · 01/05/2016 13:15

I said essentially. It seems to me it crops up in a large range of dialects (and sociolects as well, yes). And it's not the prestige pronunciation, as has become apparent on here. But that doesn't translate to 'uneducatedness'.

KoalaDownUnder · 01/05/2016 13:16

I disagree, geeka.

It is not inherently racist, classist or any other -ist to say that something is wrong. As in 'incorrect'. It is just factual.

The use of a double negative in English, as in 'I ain't done nothing wrong', also 'breaks along national, religious and class lines'. It's also grammatically wrong.

Throwing around accusations of xenophobia and racism is ridiculous. It is perfectly possible to simultaneously believe that a) I am in no way superior to group X, and b) thing Y (which coincidentally is commonly used among group X) is incorrect.

BoogieTime · 01/05/2016 13:20

Exactly. It's not a regional variation. It's simply incorrect.

MaudGonneMad · 01/05/2016 13:22

Koala H isn't incorrect in Hiberno-English; its etymology was explained upthread. But keep on insisting that the vast majority of people in Ireland are wrong, if you like. It just makes your ignorance of a recognised variation of the English language all the more apparent.

derxa · 01/05/2016 13:24

aitch

BeauGlacons · 01/05/2016 13:28

Maud Star

It's aitch. People who say haitch are also likely, ime, to say We'll honly be an 'alf hour.

Do I care? Not really. Should they? Not really unless they want people to realise they aren't as posh as they'd like to be. Hyacinth and Sally Webster types abound.

Geeka am I right in thinking you are a public sector policy twonk?

MaudGonneMad · 01/05/2016 13:30

Your rather derogatory attempt to convey a Cockney accent entirely misses my point, Beau. As do your references to Hyacinth Bucket or Sally Webster.

Never mind, I know some people can't conceive of life beyond little England.

FayKorgasm · 01/05/2016 13:45

I say We'll only be a half hour.
Maud theres no point trying.

Narp · 01/05/2016 13:53

Beau

You must get out more.

What you describe sounds suspiciously like something from a 1950s Ealing Comedy

BeauGlacons · 01/05/2016 13:56

I rally should Grin

KoalaDownUnder · 01/05/2016 13:58

The fact that a non-standard pronunciation is used more commonly than not in one English-speaking country does not make it correct.

As an Australian (not a citizen of 'little England' after all!), I should know. Wink

roarfeckingroar · 01/05/2016 14:00

Haitch makes me itch.

Aitch is proper pronounciation

JingsAndCrivens · 01/05/2016 14:02

'Pronounciation' makes me itch.

Wink
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