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To ask you how you say the letter 'H'???

245 replies

NowSissyThatWalk · 30/04/2016 18:24

Okay.
So this may have been done to death, but I am a woman close to the edge.
I pronounce the letter H as 'Aitch', not
pronouncing any 'H' sound at the start.
I have always been told this is the 'right' way to pronounce it, and so it's stuck.
But I seem to never hear anyone ever saying it like this and instead pronounce the 'H', as 'Haitch'.
I can't take much more of it. My DP says 'Haitch' and corrects me every time I don't.
I should LTB shouldn't I????

OP posts:
Andrewofgg · 30/04/2016 20:38

OvO Will you join my campaign to have anyone who refers to Laura Norder on radio or television boiled in oil?

OvO · 30/04/2016 20:46

Absolutely, Andrew. Grin

That made me laugh as it took a second for me to get it!

FayKorgasm · 30/04/2016 21:02

I am Irish and say Haitch.

Alexa444 · 30/04/2016 21:04

It depends on how I am saying it. If I'm spelling something out like Harry, spelt H A R R Y then I say Haitch. If its as in NHS then I say Aitch. Also if it is at the start of a sentence then I say Haitch and if it is mid sentence then I say Aitch. So acronyms like NHS are Aitch and ones like HA are Haitch. Never really thought about it until now.

ifgrandmahadawilly · 30/04/2016 21:06

It's definitely aitch.

I work in a call centre though and I've actually had customers pull me up on it, when they are in the wrong. One of them actually said to me 'er, I think you mean haitch, actually" Angry

ImNotThatGirl · 30/04/2016 21:11

'Haitch' is the one thing that really sets me on edge. I know it's part of some dialects but it sounds unpleasant to my ear. I hear it all the time because our organisation is abbreviated to 3 letters, the first being H.

Andylion · 30/04/2016 21:25

To the posters who think it doesn't matter, do you feel the same way about "zee"?

runs and hides

prettybird · 30/04/2016 21:26

Aitch. Ds got corrected every time he said "Haitch" and now (at 15) knows better just as he wasn't allowed to rhyme "J" with "Tie" Wink

EveryoneElsie · 30/04/2016 21:27

Andylion
*throws scones.

BorisJohnsonsHair · 30/04/2016 21:31

I pronounce it properly. Aitch. Anything else is not a regional variation, it's a mistake.

Makes me absolutely livid when I hear Haitch. I always assume people who say it are not all that bright (clearly that's not true but that's how it makes them sound imo)

squoosh · 30/04/2016 21:33

Why would you be livid? Are you highly strung as a rule?

BathshebaDarkstone · 30/04/2016 21:34

I say "aitch", DD says "haitch" and it drives me fucking crazy. I think she got it from DC at school. Angry

silvermantela · 30/04/2016 21:35

I agree it is supposed to be 'aitch' but my last job involved a lot of talking with various people over the phone, including spelling out postcodes and reference numbers, etc, and I got so worn down with me saying 'aitch,' and them going 'a?' I eventually lost the will to live and used 'huh,' even though I then annoyed myself every time.

Same with 'oblique,' and 'hyphen,' most people just had no idea, so I had to switch to 'slash' and 'dash.' Annoying but the whole point of spelling the addresses out over the phone was to make sure they got it exactly right, so no point in me faffing about doing it 'correctly' only to create more confusion.

maisiejones · 30/04/2016 21:35

The recorded message at my GP surgery tells us that in an emergency we should call 'en haitch ess'. It drives me nuts!

PeaceLoveAndJaffaCakes · 30/04/2016 21:39

Aitch

BikeRunSki · 30/04/2016 21:42

Aitch
Ay T Shhh

H is 50% of my 4 initials, I have a very valid opinion on this!

Misnomer · 30/04/2016 21:46

People are weird. First I find out that my fanny is vulgar Shock and now if I use the pronunciation that I was raised to use (because it is the convention in the country my mother is from) people think I'm stupid or are driven to murderous thoughts. Hmm

Ringsender2 · 30/04/2016 21:48

Aitch.

What about "often"? I was taught to say "off-en" in school, with a particular point being made that this was more proper. But i have no idea if this is the case.

NowSissyThatWalk · 30/04/2016 21:49

That's another good one rings
I say off-en.

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hippoherostandinghere · 30/04/2016 22:07

Another one who can tell someone's religious background by their pronunciation of the letters H and A.

OvO · 30/04/2016 22:09

I pronounce the t in often.

But soffen for soften.

DailyFaily · 30/04/2016 22:18

Aitch here - I'm from the north east and have never heard anyone local use haitch. Mind, I have a small child so more often it's huh (which is always a bit embarrassing when you inadvertently use it at work). I pronounce the t in often too.

livewyre · 30/04/2016 22:32

It's a shibboleth between Catholics and Protestants in many areas.

PeaceLoveAndJaffaCakes · 30/04/2016 22:44

Silvermantela I also get funny looks if I say hyphen when spelling my email address. They ask, "do you mean dash?" No I mean fucking hyphen you awful person.

WanderingTrolley1 · 30/04/2016 22:48

Haitch.