Hello
I don't want to appear petty here but I was would be grateful for your opinions.
We have a relative in our family who every time it comes to my ds's birthday or Christmas we cant get a present or money out of for my ds my sister tries my own mom has tried and he always fails to give anything.
We have a much younger child in the family that always gets and its usally something not cheap but then the mother of that child would tell him straight if he didn't give her child.
This relative is a bit tight with money but he isn't short at all.
He has two young children of his own and of course we always give his children for birthdays, Christmas etc I usually do as well but I am starting to think am I a mug also everyone else is saying don't give.
My ds is now 15 so not a young one hwoever he is at a age where any money given as a gift to him is very useful.
I have said to people its not his childrens fault and that I still fee I should give them something.
What do you think.