Eating in other People's Houses

[MaxPepsi]

Whilst chatting about weekend plans at work today I have mentioned that me and DH are babysitting for some friends tonight and that we plan on getting a takeaway once we've put their kids to bed.

All fairly normal and standard, or so I thought.

My announcement - re the takeaway, has been met with the utmost disapproval and I am apparently massively out of order to even think about ordering food to another persons house whilst I am there

So - am I??

As it happens, I could hold a huge fuck off party in this friends house and she wouldn't give a shit, so long as she was invited and I will still be ordering takeaway, which she knows about and isn't bothered about either

Er, no.

Weird reaction from whoever!

That is very odd! Who said you were out of order? Oh and YANBU!

Of course you're not out of order.

Who said you were?

Huh? What are you supposed to do - not eat?

No!

Would these people think you would be more reasonable to raid the fridge, use all the pots and pans and cook a 3 course meal.

Are the disapprovers the sort of people who either disapprove of takeaways full stop, or disapprove of the people who deliver takeaway?

all very strange!

They're probably the sort who'd think it very rude of you to use the toilet too.

No not at all.
The person at work that said is was odd, is the odd one.
When we baby sit my nephew we often order take away at my brothers and he does the same when he baby sits for us.

er no, your colleagues are weird. If you were babysitting for me I would pay for your damned takeaway myself!

How is that rude?

Food is normally part of be deal when I babysit!

Yanbu. treat yourself to a post take away poop too

Freaks - who ever they are that told you this most strange thing

I'm a -much hated on mn- plumber. On Tuesday's if we're all working in a big job I often order the team a dominos s. I Always offer the customer a pizza free of charge and ask permission, but none have said no yet. but I am waiting for the mn thread aibu thread "my plumber ordered pizza whilst working on my house!"

People are weird about food. I stayed at my brother and sister in law's for a week as a teenager, to mind their dog too cheap to shell out for kennels
There was NOTHING edible in the house, literally nothing.

The fridge was completely empty, the freezer was defrosted and I couldn't even find the food cupboard, no trace of even staple stuff.
I had to feed myself for a full week, which I wouldn't have had to do at home, and to say thank you they brought me back a (small) bottle of Charlie perfume.
Miserable bastards.

Cookingongas

I'm married to a Plumber, are they 'much hated' on here?

haha.
I was slightly concerned I'd been doing it wrong all these years.

I work in a mainly male environment and find sometimes their views on things are different to me, but even my brothers would order a takeaway! maybe the men in my office just don't babysit ever!

My friends won't actually care what I do in their house - so long as their kids are safe and happy!

Any plumber who buys me pizza is welcome in my home!

Why are plumbers hated??

I love my plumber, he is patient, professional, does a fab job, not too expensive and only lives round the corner so if I need something done urgent he passes twice a day!

Max I've not picked up on Plumber hate.

Any Tradesman asking for coffee or the loo gets the occasional AIBU written about them but I've not seen stuff specifically about plumbers.

MaxPepsi because they might use your toilet. Workmen stepping into the hallowed sanctuaries which are some MNers bathrooms make them faint with horror and disdain.

OK, for "plumbers" read "tradespeople of varying description".

The only way I can imagine this being rude is if you ordered something v smelly that the householders don't like.

I always make dinner for my babysitters. Maybe I should let them order take away next time they are obviously missing out!

We may poo or per in a toilet we fix or install, we are always ripping people off, we always take too long, we are the least trustworthy of all trades -- all reasons I have seen on mn to hate plumbers

Cookingongas wow!! I would be beside myself with joy if I had a plumber like you! You treat your team well and offer free pizza to your clients?! Where are you based? If you are near me I am going to block my toilet on purpose next tuesday!!