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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Because Fb Easter bragging posts are giving me the rage?

179 replies

Missdread · 26/03/2016 22:02

Aarghhh!!! "All ready for my babies in the morning" with picture of ridiculously huge pile of chocolate, sweets, TOYS (WTF? It's not Christmas!), CLOTHES, Easter trees, bunnies and fluffy chicks. I have oodles of these nauseating posts on my Fb feed tonight. AIBU to think Easter is letting your kids eat chocolate for breakfast and that's it? What the heck is WRONG with people?

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leccybill · 27/03/2016 12:14

DD got an Easter fancy colouring in book and new felt pens and was ridiculously thrilled. She'll get maybe 5-6 eggs from family. That's about the extent of our Easter.

RomComPhooey · 27/03/2016 12:15

I never got on the FB bandwagon because I was elbow deep in nappies, laundry and barely sentient from sleep deprivation when it really took off. Over the years I've been called a Luddite more times that I can count. These threads cheer me up immensely because I've entirely side-stepped all the ire and misery FB seems to create.

mumoseven · 27/03/2016 12:16

Goingtobeawesome thanks for asking! Its not off topic I suppose as its easter and he's a bunny..he's eating and drinking, but still lying down. He came down with a parasite which floored him this week. (All bunny fans and owners, check out encephalitozoon cunculli) vets have been ace, but still not sure of the outcome. Also lost a guinea pig this week (unrelated cause)and feel like never having a pet again.

Cerseirys · 27/03/2016 12:18

When did Easter start to involve a tree and presents??

MrsGradyOldLady · 27/03/2016 12:19

My 8 year old came bursting into my room this morning really really excited and shouted "Happy Easter Mummy!". I am wondering if her expectations of the day are a for a little more than being allowed to eat easter eggs whilst I clear out the car, make the same lunch I make every Sunday and do the laundry.

AppleSetsSail · 27/03/2016 12:20

Well, you should definitely get yourself off FB, stat.

When my kids were little I felt deeply invested in getting them into adorable matching Easter outfits and staging an elaborate easter egg hunt - but I'm over it now.

MrsGradyOldLady · 27/03/2016 12:20

I might let her watch me get pissed on cheap cava as well...

SpringerS · 27/03/2016 12:31

I love seeing people's facebook posts of their Easter and I'm sad that I'm not seeing more of them. There were definitely more pictures last year than this year so maybe this year people are scared of posting them?

We do BIG Easter and it's fun. I made DS an Easter countdown calendar out of an egg box and for the last 12 days we've done Easter (and St Patricks day) crafts and activities. We've made cards, decorations, dyed eggs with various methods and turned them into Mexican cascarones to throw today, made Easter characters, done lots of baking, visited the Easter bunny, gone to community egg hunts, had Easter 'discos' in the kitchen, etc. We had an egg hunt this morning with plastic eggs filled with grapes and tiny toys that I've picked up in charity shops/car boot sales all year. And at the end he found a basket with some bigger toys in it. None of which were bought especially for Easter, but came from my attic stash as I buy almost all of his toys in second hand bundles and I save them up to give them to him on special occasions. Were off to the petting zoo for another egg hunt shortly and plan on spending tomorrow at an Easter even in a local folk park.

I'm glad Easter has turned into Christmas lite, it's awesome. What's wrong with having a big spring celebration if that floats your boat? Besides that our perspective on the passage of time is proportional to the time we've already lived. So from DS's perspective Christmas was as long ago as the last Olympics was to me. That's quite a long time between celebrations.

ample · 27/03/2016 12:36

I would have a new dress each Easter (not only limited to Easter) but always remember having a new pretty party type dress to wear on the Sunday morning. Same thing that was done for my DM.
Could be a northern tradition.
No toys. Only eggs and a dress.

yorkshapudding · 27/03/2016 13:03

SIL posted a pic on FB this morning of her 6 year old DS stood in front of a pile of 20+ Easter eggs, a big stack of new clothes and toys etc.

I can understand wanting to turn it into a celebration and posting pics of DC's doing an Easter egg hunt, making Easter bonnets etc but pictures of piles of presents feels odd to me...it's just stuff.

areyoubeingserviced · 27/03/2016 14:08

My dc's get one egg each.
I refuse to buy into the Easter consumerism.
Easter is for going to church and watching 'jesus Of Nazareth' on TV
I don't want Easter to go the same way as Christmas

fourage · 27/03/2016 14:15

"Easter is for going to church and watching 'jesus Of Nazareth' on TV "

Maybe for you, my Easter has nothing to do with jesus.

Blueredballoon · 27/03/2016 14:35

I used to get loads of eggs when I was a kid as our (big) family bought for each other. I think we probably also got a new outfit. I don't really celebrate Easter now apart from doing a little egg hunt for my DC. I might get them a garden toy or something too as its a good time of year for it if they need anything (winter birthdays).

I don't go on Facebook very much and I don't share anything on there, but what I truly, truly don't understand is why people care what other people do? Every family does different stuff and has different traditions- why care what others do? Other families going crazy over Christmas or Easter or birthdays has no effect on what we do. Just do it/ don't do it how you want. Social media causes so much anxiety- just ignore it!

areyoubeingserviced · 27/03/2016 14:56

Good luck to you Fourage.
Enjoy you'Easter'?

fourage · 27/03/2016 15:02

Yes Easter. Why not? Easter is many things to many people. The christian slant is one of them.

Sallyingforth · 27/03/2016 15:05

Maybe for you, my Easter has nothing to do with jesus.

It's strange when Christians celebrate Easter with chocolate and bunnies Confused

But it's even more strange when non-Christians celebrate Easter at all Confused Confused

fourage · 27/03/2016 15:06

Why strange sally? Easter is a secular, pagan and christian celebration. I am surprised if you can't grasp that.

bibbitybobbityyhat · 27/03/2016 15:14

I've just had a look at my facebook. Not a single bragging post. Must be something to do with your friends, op?

Someone has made some rather nice crispie cakes with mini eggs though, they look very pretty.

Beautifulstorm · 27/03/2016 15:20

Why are you so offended that somebody has made more of an effort? Yes yabu

Armi · 27/03/2016 15:25

I also have 'people intolerance' today. Am pissed off with the 'piles of stuff', am pissed off with the 'I am morally superior because I handcrafted a single Easter gift for my child from a piece of twig and some coal' and am pissed off (as an atheist, please note) by the intolerant, offensive references to Christian aspects of Easter which, if they were said about another religion, would be roundly (and absolutely rightly) condemned on this board.

GarlicShake · 27/03/2016 15:28

Every so often I reach irritation saturation with the "Christian holiday" thing and post an elementary guide to syncretism. You're lucky this year; I'm keeping it simple!

Saturnalia - Roman (as in Zeus, Hera, etc) winter festival of food, booze, gifts and partay. Late December. All other cultures in wider Europe had a midwinter festival, too. In agriculture, winter was the holiday time - nothing growing, just a few animals to feed - and so people liked to kick back, share their stored produce, and light things up to relieve the darkness.

Easter - Spring festival, as represented by Ishtar (posted by a PP), celebrating the return of life and fertility. Everything's started growing again, the birds & animals are shagging: all of Europe starts looking forward to a bountiful harvest. And squeezes in one last party before the real work begins.

Christianity - Isn't stupid. Like every major religion, it knows better than to try & rob people of their fun while converting them. Adopts the winter festival as Christmas (if there was a Jesus, he was born in March apparently.) This way, everyone gets their lights, feasts & presents but now it's a feast of Christ. Fine. Easter - easy! Return of life, Christ gets murdered and returns. Hurrah, let's celebrate. Have a party :)

Easter is a secular, pagan and christian celebration. - Fourage is correct.

MaryPoppinsPenguins · 27/03/2016 15:33

What's the issue really?

My DD's are really good girls, they deserve treats now and then, I love being able to put an egg, a bunny and a magazine or something in a basket and seeing their faces light up...

Sallyingforth · 27/03/2016 15:33

fourage
I didn't mention pagans. But since you did, why aren't they following their pagan spring festival of the equinox, rather than the very variable date set by the Christian calendar?
Don't get me wrong, I'm not knocking either party, just puzzled.

Sallyingforth · 27/03/2016 15:34

Crossed with garlic

GarlicShake · 27/03/2016 15:36

Oh, look, Snopes has got a fab page on Easter!

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