Aibu to not want to announce a pregnancy until as late as possible (basically until it's showing)? I found a lot of older family members quite pushy with their opinions about everything baby related last time and I just want to enjoy my pregnancy in peace for as long as possible. Does anyone else feel like this? But there is a hen do coming up. MIL, SIL and lots of extended family will be there. I'm wondering if they will start speculating when they realise I'm not drinking. Anyone got any good excuses I can use? Everyone's a detective when it comes to these things...worried they will start asking questions or put me on the spot.