To feel so disappointed that dh and I made such bad choices in dd's god parents

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She's had another birthday with none of her god parents sent a card. I'm not grabby and don't care about presents but to not even send a card. I'm disappointed for dd that people we felt would always be part of our lives can't be bothered with her. One is a relative too. I can't really confront them as what would that achieve? I can't think of any way to approach it other than forget she even has god parents.

We have 3 children and so various godparents. (My sister and I have none and it was never an issue!)
My best friend and her husband (who is DH's mate) share the older 2 but are great to all 3, she says she considers herself godmother to all of them.
Dd's godfather is fantastic, again to all 3 of them. His ex-wife is definitely not arsed! We are godparents to their daughter and love her dearly.
My sister is godmother to the 2 boys and sees them all a lot.
The others, not so good, but they all remember birthdays