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To be a bit worried and consider splitting the m m r jabs

147 replies

scarednoob · 15/02/2016 19:07

DD is only 5 months but it is playing on my mind already, as a fair few people have said they won't be vaccinating their babies at all and hinted ominously about doing my research.

I had measles quite badly as a little girl; i wouldn't wish it on anyone. So I am certainly not saying she won't be having the jabs. But from the reading I'm doing, the m m r does seen like a lot to give a little body all in one go.

I was wondering what people thought - is there any benefit to spreading them out? Am I being daft/unreasonable to worry? (I know it would mean going privately; that's not an issue.)

Thanks all!

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redcaryellowcar · 15/02/2016 22:37

It's possible through your regular GP to give each separate injection at different times. So she would have mmr (combined) but then have the other year jabs around four weeks later so not quite so much for the immune system to cope with in one go??

PurpleDaisies · 15/02/2016 22:38

sugar's thread is here.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/_chat/2571819-Im-going-to-tell-you-all-to-consider-something

Really worth reading and brace if you to share. Flowers

PurpleDaisies · 15/02/2016 22:39

Brave of you to share (sorry for typo).

Fugghetaboutit · 15/02/2016 22:40

I got the single measles vaccine at the baby jabs clinic for ds.

The dr is very unbiased actually despite running a clinic privately. He wasn't anti MMR and didn't say anything negative towards it to my H during the consultation. He Just wants to prove single vaccines for parents who are worried about the MMR so he's still getting children vaccinated which is a good thing.

I have two friends who aren't vaccinating their children and I don't have their kids over anymore as I have a newborn.

ollieplimsoles · 15/02/2016 22:41

Purple thanks for sharing on here. What an awful thing to happen, absolutely heartbreaking.
.we were so lucky, dd came along in October and they introduced it in Sept so we didn't have to pay

Roonerspism · 15/02/2016 22:41

sugar Flowers very brave of you to share. It was posts like these that encouraged me to have my DCs receive this vaccine last year.

sugar21 · 15/02/2016 22:47

Thanks for linking purple

ollieplimsoles · 15/02/2016 22:48

So sorry for your loss sugar Flowers

sugar21 · 15/02/2016 22:53

ollie thank you. I have written the thread (although it was very difficult) to raise awareness.
Please feel free to read everybody and comment
Warning its not very cheery

ollieplimsoles · 15/02/2016 22:59

It seems to have made people sit up and take notice sugar hopefully you will have persuaded more parents to get the vaccine and save lives Flowers

sugar21 · 15/02/2016 23:11

I hope so ollie if I can save just one life by starting my thread it will be worth writing.

HackerFucker22 · 15/02/2016 23:24

Can someone explain go me the difference between the 8w 12w and 16w jab (all of which are combined) and the mmr.

Yes they are for different diseases I'm a thicko but get that much but in terms of the "little bodies can't cope" rhetoric then having these early jabs but refusing the mmr doesn't make sense?

Allisgood1 · 15/02/2016 23:27

Purple daisies
Hmm...on the GCSE science course you have to be able to identify potential issues with bias in sources of evidence. Even my lowest ability pupils could see a link with those two sentences.

Have you read the book yourself? Is history wrong? Or do you just choose to ignore because he has a clinic for people who want to vaccinate separately.

At least they are vaccinating IMHO. There are a ton of crazies out there who aren't and advocating such nonsense. This is the only book I've read that present facts over opinion.

ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 15/02/2016 23:28

Sugar21 In all your posts, your pain leaps off the page and leaves me in tears. I hope you have support in real life with your grief.
You are to be commended for trying to raise awareness of vaccines and your bravery is pretty inspirational.
Remember your daughter will always be with you in your thoughts and memories and be kind to yourself always Flowers

PurpleDaisies · 15/02/2016 23:37

Yes I have read the book allisgood. I also remember when the website for baby jabs was ordered to remove misleading material by the advertising standards agency.
www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-19163717

Allisgood1 · 15/02/2016 23:52

If you've read the book you may recall that he goes over each vaccine, it's history, and it's ingredients. You may recall the incident in Cornwall in 1988 in which many residents of suffered from the effects of aluminum. You may also recall that 8 week baby vaccines contain something like 200% the RDA for an adult. Now put those two things together and tell me it isn't wrong. Tell me it's safe. He gives a several other examples. You can dispute fact, unfortunately. You can just choose what you read and ignore what you don't want to hear.

Again, OP, I say vaccinate. It's negligent not to. But learn the facts and ignore Antiscience and pseudoscience claims (which would include all of Wakefields work).

Allisgood1 · 15/02/2016 23:54

*cant ignore facts
*overdose of aluminum from water

sugar21 · 15/02/2016 23:55

Thank you Ilostit Illness is strange as in how it rips people apart. You see exdh could not accept the fact that Daisy had gone to a better place and he turned to drink. Eventually we split up. I will always love him but not the drink.
Brief summary but you get what I mean.
I am humbled by everyone's responses thank you

scarednoob · 16/02/2016 00:11

Oh sugar Flowers

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BunnyTyler · 16/02/2016 00:54

I had single vaccines with my eldest (nearly 14 now), as the MMR debate was raging back then and he'd had a few hospital visits by 18 months for fevers & breathing.

My youngest (now nearly 11) had the MMR triple jab as he was a well & healthy baby with no problems.

Both boys got the triple jab booster as I was happy that they were both generally well at the point that was due.

I had to travel hundreds of miles to go privately for the single jabs all those years ago as the doctors had been told they were not allowed to do single shots, and now they're not all available?
I suspect that a large percentage of those who won't vaccinate with the triple jab would happily use singles, but that option has been totally removed now - why? To prove a point?

ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 16/02/2016 08:31

Single jabs for MMR are discouraged, as far as I know, for the following reasons..

The MMR vaccine is designed to work more efficiently when combined.

When given in single doses, there is more time left between jabs when the child is exposed to the illnesses.

Some parents may be tempted to pick and chose which to give their child, due to cost, time restrainsts or the mistaken belief that some vaccines are more important than others.

It is worth noting that the regulations surrounding introducing any new drug or vaccine into the country are extremely strict. Years of extensive research is required before a vaccine is passed.

midnightlurker · 16/02/2016 08:54

My DD reacts badly to vaccines. We split mmr from the other ones given at a year old, but so far it has been the one she has reacted least to!

specialsubject · 16/02/2016 11:28

a lot of the hot air is because people want to be told that vaccination is 100% safe. It isn't. Nothing is. You and ickle preshus are going to die of something, and meantime life is a risk. No-one reputable will tell you that anything is 100% safe.

those who didn't waste their education and have open minds are able to judge relative risk. For most people, it is much lower risk to have vaccines. Not everyone, but most.

apparently I had a convulsion (that's a fit, isn't it?) after my measles jab in the 1960s. I'm fine, although the part of my brain that should allow me to tolerate ignorant fuckwittery seems to have suffered. Or maybe I never had it. Who knows?

LittleBearPad · 16/02/2016 12:08

Why is 3-in-1 (MMR) worse than 4-in-1 at 8 weeks.

Your neighbour and NCT friend are idiots.

Lightbulbon · 16/02/2016 12:21

Ime of mn vax threads is that both sides fail to distinguish between correlation and causation and anecdote and evidence.

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