DH and ds (3) were at mil visiting yesterday morning. I made lunch in advance and put it on the table as ds often insists on eating as soon as he gets home from anywhere. They don't usually return until 12.30 or so and I went upstairs to breastfeed dd when they came home early at 11.45. They then both had lunch without me. I said I was upset about this and was told I was being ridiculous. Tonight at dinner we had a buffet style meal and there was a plate put aside with cookies ds and I had baked. As soon as he was finished, well before me or ds, dh took a cookie and began eating it. I suggested he wait on us and he lost the plot asking why and disagreeing it was bad manners. Opinions, although it sounds petty now I have to admit!