I got married last year and had my closest friends and sister as bridesmaids but as we had a very small and informal wedding they didn't have to wear bridesmaids dresses etc.
One of them is a hairdresser and so she did my hair and make up for me. She is probably my closest friend and came with me to pick my wedding dress and shoes and arranged my hen do.
She is getting married this year but hasn't asked me to be a bridesmaid as her future mil is kicking up a fuss about the grooms sister not being a bridesmaid so she is only having her sister to try and keep the peace. I wasn't overly fussed but she isn't involving me in her wedding at all.
She didn't invite me dress shopping and won't tell me anything about the dress she has picked. She hasn't actually told me much about the wedding at all.
I'm not going to say anything to her because I don't want her to think I am being negative about her wedding but I am actually quite upset. I need to arrange transport for the day of the wedding but don't know if I am going to be getting ready with her or if she just wants me to go straight to the venue. I don't really get all the fuss about weddings and was very laid back when it came to mine but I had her involved in every stage of my wedding as it was really nice to have her there. We had fun getting ready and she really helped me ease my nerves.
Am I being overly sensitive or does she sound like she is being a bridezilla?
Thanks