To ask your advice over what to do with contact...

[Strangeoccurence]

As some are aware my ex sexually assaulted me with our son in the next room.
I reported this to the police. Children services contacted me saying no further action would be taken, but it is my responsibility to ensure that my son is safe during contact with dad.

Dad was quite happy to do this when our son was in the next room.
I dont know how i can be certain that this is not going to happen again, with someone else.
Right now, i dont believe dad is in a relationship or even seeing anyone. I also dont believe right now that dad would invite someone over when our son was there.
At the same time though, i dont know for a fact.
How can i ensure my sons safety when he is at dads, when i am not there?

I dont know if in thinking far too much into this or not. It feels like if anything went wrong at dads, i will be at fault for failing to safeguard.

So what can i do? Am i just over thinking it?

Hello Op
Sorry to read about all of this - let us know if you'd like us to move this thread to our legal topic or anywhere else.

@Strangeoccurence

Thank you. I might pop a post over in legal later on. The officer started at 2pm. I still havent heard anything at all. I cant call them yet now either due to my kids still being up and awake.

Thank you olivia :)