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to worry about my 4 year old in Reception

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hottea · 03/01/2016 18:48

Long time lurker, 1st time poster. So please be gentleSmile

My daughter was born 7 weeks prematurely in August. There were few health concerns, but now she is a normal happy girl. She is the youngest in her school year. She started Reception this year and can so far do the following:

  • know all her phonics sounds and moved on to learning diagraphs
  • finished reading ORT level 1+ books (so can read cvc, cvcc, 25 tricky words and now words with diagraphs. But she still blends most words before reading, rather than reading on sight
  • can write most alphabets, but gets the letter formation wrong sometimes.
  • can spell some cvc words and most tricky words she knows
  • can write sentences with lot of support. Not all words sit on the line.
  • can count till 20, understands the concept of adding 1
  • can write numbers 1 to 20, but writing can have numbers flipped
  • her communication, sharing and playing in a group, going to toilet and behaviour is very good at home and school. She is also very happy at school and seems to take playground fights and friendship issues in her stride and often tells me to stop worrying about stuff! But I am a born worrier!

School has commented that her concentration is not good, motor skills need improving and needs to speak up in groups more.

I have also been told not to worry about her as even though premature, she is progressing fine.

But I guess I am human and I am concerned that her concentration is not what a 4 year old's should be or that of her classmates. Her drawing and colouring is also more basic compared to her friends.

So my question is based on the above, do I have reason for any concern? I am probably just being pfb. Thanks if you got this far!

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MiaowTheCat · 04/01/2016 08:16

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Asskicker · 04/01/2016 08:29

Dd was the youngest in her year and a prem baby. I totally understand where you are coming from.

Dd sounds just like your dd. Academics Very good, but motor skills weren't as great.

She is now 12, is doing brilliantly in school and a championship kick boxer. Her motor skills soon caught up.

Ds fine motor skills were excellent, but he struggled a bit more academically. He is in reception too and has progressed so much. I expect he will even up as well.

Dd was tiny as well, compared with her school mates. It did make me worry about her more than I do ds, who is tall and looks about 6.

LittleLionMansMummy · 04/01/2016 08:36

5yo November born ds can't do half those things op and I have no worries, he's very bright and making good progress. Providing you're seeing continuous improvement I wouldn't worry too much at this age.

thickgit · 04/01/2016 20:12

I'm new to here, pretty much. Getting my head around what a stealth boast is. Surely, even if you think it is one, it's better to keep the moral high ground and keep it to yourself, otherwise you may appear slightly bitter and jealous. . . insecure even

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHorrid · 04/01/2016 20:23

She's doing really well. Probably a bit ahead of my dd academically (but my dd is amazing with scissors - total boast Grin)

You should be proud of her.

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