AIBU to get some wine back from this woman I know

[MarksAndSpencersMummy]

A fellow mum has been offering lifts to my DD.

She is normally very nice, classy, and pleasant.

I don't think she uses this site.

I dropped by with a bottle of Prosecco for her as a thank you (the crate from which it came was destined for my husbands bosses's Xmas party).

I had taken the bottle out of the crate and was ready to present that to her.

She lurched up to the door, reeking of booze, yelled "gissa that my luverly PARTY TIME YEAH BABY"

She then patted her husbands arse, pulled the whole crate from my arms and ran/staggered off with a wink.

Should I ask for it back or should I just let it go?

Who on earth considers a bottle of wine? You must always give a case, unless it is fizz, then you can give a 1/2 case.

Haha ha. Op maybe you should call 101 and get this logged - she has technically stolen from you

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I'd like a more detailed description of the tussle please

omg.... i remember reading the other lady's thread last night....

So - why did you carry the entire box into the house with you if you only meant to give her one bottle? I mean, are you in training for Britain's Strongest Woman or something - who does that? It's like showing someone the biggest doll in the shop and then saying "but THAT one's not for you, you get this 6" high thing instead".

OP, you were rude to have taken the whole crate in with you, I do hope you realise that. You've let yourself down, you've let your husband down, and worse than that, you've let M&S down too.

You could have just said, "No".

No is a complete sentence, you know!

Call 101. She's almost certainly a drunk driver too. You can never be sure you will actually be safe in this woman's car now!
Go NC.

She sounds like a bit of a lush, I trust you won't be allowing your DD to have lifts from her in future?

and worse than that, you've let M&S down too

Shocking. I think you should ask her if she meant to be so rude.

I'm sure that her husband will have pointed out the error of her ways. Chalk to up to experience OP, I'm sure that her mistake will be pointed out by masses of people on MN if she start a thread about it.

Go NC and LTB.

ha ha, yes, V.good
see what you did there.....:)

Have you called the non-emergency police number so they can log it? It's better safe than sorry!

Liverand Chianti Good point! The OP may not be the only victim.

0phelia, I can't believe you've suggested 101. How irresponsible.

Surely 999 is the only reasonable course of action here.

So - why did you carry the entire box into the house with you if you only meant to give her one bottle?

Stop victim blaming!!

What if she drank the whole lot in one night? You're nothing but an enabler - do you have problems with alcohol yourself, OP?

Love it...very well done OP

She doesn't sound very naice to me at all.

She's a narcissist. And a sociopath. The bi-atchh STW stole your wine

She has naice curtains though.