To have been hoping for a thankyou

[soyvanillalatte]

I know this one is a bit pathetic but I just have to get it off my chest in order to move on.
I spent quite a few weeks looking for some nice gifts to pop in a full gift bag that I gave DSS girlfriend for Christmas. I have no girls and really enjoyed buying things for a female for a change and was excited to see if she liked the gifts I bought.
DSS came over on Christmas day but she was still at work so he took her gift bag with him to pass on.
I have had no contact at all from her about the gift. I was hoping for at least a thankyou?
AIBU for being disappointed? Expecting too much? (she is 20).

That is a bit rude

Oh gosh, I should say what it was otherwise it will look weird. The one she didn't know was one of those yankee candle melt burners.

Maybe she hated the gifts.. - this is completely irrelevant! A thank you isn't going to kill her even if she didn't like anything. It's common courtesy.

Now she's being rude.
Don't bother next year.
Some socks and leave it at that.

i made something for a (younger) female relative, wasnt picked up til NY, but not a whiff of a thank you....

I dont want to say anything, because that negates it - fucking rude though