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To never speak to my parents again after this Christmas present?

145 replies

MissHooliesCardigan · 26/12/2015 16:48

My DPs bought DH and me a penthouse for Christmas. However, it's only got 6 bedrooms and is in Kensington. I specifically said Mayfair and at least 8 bedrooms.
I don't know how they could do this Angry

OP posts:
BatsUpMyNightie · 26/12/2015 17:13

I made the effort to buy them both a lovely gift pack of toiletries from Superdrug

Was it Bayliss & Harding? If not I can see why they're pissed off at you and obviously this is a retaliatory shot. NC and 101 to log it.
Sorry hun.

2boysnamedR · 26/12/2015 17:14

Sell it on eBay......

ladypete · 26/12/2015 17:15

Flowers and Cake for you OP. THEYRE CLEARLY TOXIC! Report it to 101 and/or SS if there's kids involved, and definitely go NC.

You could also leave the kids with a neighbour and go to A&E for anything that you can think of and then eventually and LTB.

Sallyingforth · 26/12/2015 17:17

Is there room to build a rooftop swimming pool?

If no I'd definitely go NC.

WorraLiberty · 26/12/2015 17:18

A penthouse you say?

YANBU if they couldn't be bothered to buy and gift wrap the 952,000 bricks you'll need to build the outside barbecue.

Just thoughtless really.

Freeriver · 26/12/2015 17:18

Sending you a great big ((((HUG)))). Poor, poor you..

TartanBirdFeeder · 26/12/2015 17:19

You are so lucky, now you can help Syrian refugees by housing them. What a great opportunity, don't waste it.

BarbaraofSeville · 26/12/2015 17:19

Your parents bought you a porn mag for Christmas??? I didn't even know they were still going.

MoMoTy · 26/12/2015 17:20

Wine for everyone putting in the effort to keep this thread going lol

Lweji · 26/12/2015 17:23

YAVBU for calling them DPs. Surely they are not dear to you.

Nor is the penthouse. Cheap as chips.

ImtheChristmasCarcass · 26/12/2015 17:23

Tell them that they owe you a basement extension and a private elevator to reach it. You have definitely been psychologically damaged because of their thoughtless behaviour.

MissHooliesCardigan · 26/12/2015 17:23

Bats No, it was Superdrug's own brand - buy one, get one half price.

OP posts:
Dipankrispaneven · 26/12/2015 17:24

They sound vile. But maybe they've bought you a mansion in Gloucestershire for the New Year? Tell them nothing less will do.

Freeriver · 26/12/2015 17:28

BarbaraofSeville
Your parents bought you a porn mag for Christmas??? I didn't even know they were still going.

Barbara, whether OP's parents are still 'going' or not is a very personal question IMO.

Lweji · 26/12/2015 17:29

I bet at this stage they don't even know if they are going or coming.

MissHooliesCardigan · 26/12/2015 17:30

And, to add insult to injury, they got the DCs a card between them rather than one each! Talk about selfish.

OP posts:
Lweji · 26/12/2015 17:31

It depends. Was it only a gold card or platinum?

nocoolnamesleft · 26/12/2015 17:34

And I bet they did get your dsis a far better penthouse, and she doesn't even need it as much as you.

MizK · 26/12/2015 17:34

You sound lovely, OP Hmm

My parents gave me an envelope of crumbs. I cried. I'll treasure it forever.

Now , had they given you a gift set of toiletries, you would be within your rights to go NC.

lorelei9 · 26/12/2015 17:35

I don't want to rub salt in your wound, OP, but if they've opted for a smaller pad in Kensington, you might want to check if they also economised in the length of the lease.

In addition to going NC, I suggest writing to your local MP to see about a campaign to divorce from parents.

Freeriver · 26/12/2015 17:39

MizK Great that you have added to this thread, well done, but you

aren't going to make it all about you surely ?? OP has a lot to deal

with and has come here for some support.

sparkleglitterdaisy · 26/12/2015 17:41

Big hugs - I'm sure they just have a really good sense of humour & it was a joke present & today they coming round with their real present to you .

Thornrose · 26/12/2015 17:42

I'm so sorry this has happened, you poor thing.

What did the PILs get you? Or us that too traumatic to discuss?

MizK · 26/12/2015 17:42

Freeriver I remember you from the thread about the tree frogs. Please don't harass me again. Reported.

Wink
Freeriver · 26/12/2015 17:46

MizK I stand by what I said - tree frogs deserve respect too. !!