Hi all. Thanks for taking the time to read this. Sorry if it's too long.
I have 4 children- two boys aged 7 and 4. Two girls aged 3 and 1. My children are to 3 fathers. My girls have contact with their dad and we have a good relationship. My boys call my ex (girls dad) dad as well their fathers are not involved. I work 4 days a week in a good job and own my own home.
I went on a rare night out in the summer and met a man. I vaguely knew him as his sister is my sisters friend. We have been seeing each other once or twice a week since then and it's been well but my kids are my priority and he knows this. Last Saturday he was on a works night out and texted me to say he loves me etc and I'm amazing: I was taken aback and didn't respond. I saw him on Sunday and in his hungover state he told me the following : I'm a slag for having 4 kids to 3 dads, I know I'm good looking and he's embarrassed that his sister knows I'm a slag and he would never introduce me to his parents. I know this is childish but I'm so upset he said these things. I won't be seeing him again but I feel like crap over it.