to think swallowing is making me sick?

[cursethesemetalhands]

NC as embarrassing.

Basically recently started having sex with a new partner. Every time I have given him a blow job and swallowed I have been ill afterwards. First time I was sick. Second time just felt a bit queezey and had to sit down head between legs ect to stop myself from throwing up. Third time I had really horrible stomach cramps, felt like I was going to throw up and had terrible diarrhea. This happens with in 15-30 minutes after swallowing his semen.

I am not BU to think there is a link am I? I have thought about what I've eaten each day, (normal run of the mill stuff I always eat) havent been drinking, feeling great up until that point. I didnt think there may be a link until just thinking about it after the last time. I have always swallowed with previous partners, and enjoy to do so so its not a mental thing. I dont know what else it can be. Has anyone else experienced something like this?

i don't think you feeling sick after swallowing is unusual and nothing to worry about. Anyway letting it dribble down your chin is far more erotic. I always find a last minute hand job solves that problem. swallowing is for birthdays

Eeeeew

There could be a correlation OP.

I remember a friend saying years ago that when her DH was put on strong medication, his semen would make her mouth go numb for a while afterwards.

So perhaps it's something he's ingesting.

Why would you continue to do something that makes you feel physically sick?

This is not a sexual act. It doesn't give you pleasure.

recently started having sex with a new partner. Every time I have given him a blow job and swallowed I have been ill afterwards
You are, of course, exclusive, and you were both health-checked in advance?
Maybe its the mother/grandma in me that goes cold with fear when I read these casual-sounding threads. Or perhaps because I lived through the eighties.
Just like anything else, if it makes you sick don't swallow it.

1. You could ask HQ to move this to the sex board

2. Are you sure that you're practising safe sex - have you seen the paperwork that says he's been tested for STIs and that he's clean?

If not, you do realise what you are risking don't you? Charlie Sheen hasn't been in the news for nothing this week.

In fact, some diseases can lie dormant and undetected so you are practising risky behaviour. Stick a condom on it then you solve both problems at once.

I would refrain.

Elendon
I only made the link after the last time.

Both been STI tested, we went together to get checked out, so no worries on that front.

I would be sad to stop swallowing and spit or whatever instead, I really enjoy bj's and swallowing, its a turn on for me as much as him.

I find it strange that I'm having this physical reaction now, when I never have in the past. Must be something that new partner ingests I guess?

Tell him to eat pineapples. Makes it taste less of bleach.

Also, spit don't swallow. If you think about it, it's not really a natural thing you would ingest is it?

Yuck. Thanks for ruining my lunch.

YANBU to link the two things.

I'm not sure why you need others opinion on it. It ain't rocket science.

'Revolting?' jesus some of you need to grow up.

Tell him to eat pineapples. Makes it taste less of bleach.

This made me spit my tea - you put pineapple in dog food to stop them eating their own shit!

To be honest, the title was pretty obvious to me! and its not revolting, its a beautiful act of love

Christ on a bike, it was quite obvious what the OP meant from the title. Some people just look for a reason to whinge.

It wasn't obvious to me. I thought it was going to be a medical issue.

It couldn't really be about anything else could it? I mean if the very act of swallowing your own saliva/food/drink is making you sick then you're in danger of death...it kind of had to be about BJs.

OP, the simple solution is to stop swallowing. HTH.

There's another meaning to pearl necklace?!

Yup revolting
And I'm a grown adult and am allowed to say I find threads like this revolting
Fucks sake people maimed enough they wanted a sex topic so guckjng use it
unless you are just on the windup

Well, maybe you like the feeling of almost shitting your pants, after sex. Sounds like you don't though.

There is no response. You are happy to swallow. With your new partner it gives you the runs. Perhaps you could put this into your sexual repertoire?

Blimey, I wouldn't want to be washing your sheets.

It is possible, I think, to have an allergic reaction to an individual's semen. Perhaps that is what is happening in your case?

Fluffy if you clutch those pearls they are going to ooze between your fingers!

Fluffy

There does seem to be a bit of a strong reaction to reading about oral sex on this thread. I too thought it was quite obvious what it was going to be about.

OP, as others have said - stop swallowing and see if that makes a difference. I wonder if it is not the semen but if you are irritating your gag reflex? So that when you stop it causes some kind of spasm in your throat that makes you heave?