to be hurt he only takes snapchats with her?

[lifetimeoflaughter]

Whenever we go out as a group of friends, there is one guy (who I would consider pretty much a best friend) and he will always take a snapchat with the same woman.

Se is very pretty.

He does it as hes a player and wants to make other women jealous.

He never takes one with me.

I'm definitely your plan jane type of girl.

Just makes me feel pretty shit.

Aibu?

(yes pathetic I know)

[IoraRua]

I think it's a Snapchat story ungoogle - they stay up 24 hours.

Get over yourself OP.

[Sallyingforth]

Thanks for that last comment OP. It confirms everything.
Did you slam the door?

[UnGoogleable]

I think it's a Snapchat story ungoogle - they stay up 24 hours.

Aaaah, now I'm all embarrassed that I'm not down with the kids enough to know that

OP, your friend wants to show off to his friends that he's out with this girl. He doesn't want to show off that he's with you. It's that simple. Sorry.

[UnGoogleable]

I'm off to Home Bargains in a bit, am I missing something? Are there good deals on at Morrisons that I should know about?

[MilkTwoSugarsThanks]

OK, so we're too thick to understand. So explain it to us very slowly exactly why you have a problem with someone you're not attracted to being attracted to someone else. Then we might be able to help.

Honestly, even my DS and his friends make more sense. They're in Yr7.

(ps - my trip out this week was to Sainsbury's.)

[SaucyJack]

D'you know what?

Your thread has only served to remind me that I'm much happier now I'm old and I spend my weekends pootling round B&Q with my long-term partner.

Teenage years are a bitch really, innit.

[Enjolrass]

Are there good deals on at Morrisons that I should know about?

The usual for this time of year. A deal on spirits, but we get 10% off as fil worked there until his retirement so we have a discount card.

Always works out cheaper for us. Nice day out for us oldies too, apparently.

[ElsaAintAsColdAsMe]

Did you throw something out of your pram on the way out op.

I actually don't go anywhere apart from the supermarket anymore, I lost all my friends by being weird, jealous, possessive and clingy

[UnGoogleable]

A Morisson's discount card you say Enjol gosh I'm rather jealous. Does he take Snapchats of himself with it?

I'm looking for snap lock containers for my nuts and seeds, and I might even treat myself to one of those trays with compartments so I can organize my earrings collection.

Rock and Roll!

[lightupmynight]

I think you're mistaken OP

Snapchat leaves the picture up for up to 10 seconds, not 24 hours. See I don't even get out to Morissons on a weekly trip, but I am able to Google.

It is hilarious when someone comes onto a thread just just declare someone is mistaken - when its actually them who are mistaken. Cringe haha

[JoySzasz]

life you stated you were gay.
So, l asked if it was the female in question, that has your desires.

If that is homophobic, l will eat my Morrison's bag for life!

[WorraLiberty]

Weekly trip to Morrisons?

Errr HELLO!! Morrisons deliver, so there's no need to go out into the real world!

[diddl]

So how long do they stay for?

My teenage daughter thinks that it's only a few secs!

I'm not saying that she's right just because she's ateen, but would want to correct herabout it if she's wrong.

[UnGoogleable]

Yes light I'm terribly embarrassed about my faux pas not understanding the finer points of Snapchat. I'll never be able to show my face in the 6th form common room again.

I think its hilarious that you think I was making a serious point, I actually only came on the thread to discuss what's on BOGOF at Morissons....

[LikeASoulWithoutAMind]

Sorry OP like the others I am struggling to understand why you would be bothered about someone you don't fancy finding someone else attractive.

We don't understand because it's not a very healthy response. Not because we're stupid.

The kindest advice I can give you is to have a think about these friendships and whether they really work for you. Do you feel generally jealous of this other woman? How about the man?

[JoySzasz]

How old are you op

[diddl]

I've found this: "Users set a time limit for how long recipients can view their Snaps (as of September 2015, the range is from 1 to 10 seconds),"

And this: "On 15 September 2015, it was announced that Snapchat would allow members to pay a small fee to be able to replay snaps, a feature that was previously limited to once every 24 hours"

[lightupmynight]

I do have to agree with the OP with one thing (and I see it very often in AIBU)

Poster - You fancy him.
OP - No I don't
Poster - Yes you fancy him.

I mean the chances are we don't have a friggin clue who anyone in this situation is and you just have to accept that what you are told is the truth.

I see this happen countless times and I find it bizarre that people can't ever just accept that the OP is telling the truth? Because we're never going to get a different version, even know the people or hear a different side.

[JoySzasz]

My 17 year old son (lover of snap chat) wouldn't get this invested!

[IoraRua]

Snaps do - in theory - only remain for a few secs (but you can replay them and get apps that download and save any snap you get).

You can also add snaps to your story - this is accessible to any of your contacts on snapchat. They can be replayed and remain up for 24 hours.

[diddl]

So OP is it that he pays hermore/different attention & you think that he therefore likes her more or thinks of heras more than a friend than you?

I would still find that odd tbh.

[lightupmynight]

Yes light I'm terribly embarrassed about my faux pas not understanding the finer points of Snapchat. I'll never be able to show my face in the 6th form common room again.

Its got nothing to do with understanding snapchat.

It coming on to announce something is wrong (when actually you're the one who got it wrong)

Its coming in to act superior and then looking like a bit of a tit.

[ConstanceMarkYaBitch]

He does nt find you attractive. He doesn't have to to be your friend.
There's a particular kind if person who describes things, like you have, of something being done to you, when its actually nothing at all to do with you. Its needy and it's narcissistic, and you need to stop making everything about you.
He takes selfies with someone he finds attractive. This has zero connection to you.

[lightupmynight]

Why are people googling snapchat? Its very simple.

You have a story which will go up for 24 hours from when you post it.

Or you can send people snaps privately that can last from 1 - 10 seconds.

[lightupmynight]

The story can be viewed as many times as you want.