to be hurt he only takes snapchats with her?

[lifetimeoflaughter]

Whenever we go out as a group of friends, there is one guy (who I would consider pretty much a best friend) and he will always take a snapchat with the same woman.

Se is very pretty.

He does it as hes a player and wants to make other women jealous.

He never takes one with me.

I'm definitely your plan jane type of girl.

Just makes me feel pretty shit.

Aibu?

(yes pathetic I know)

[Zucker]

Pick meeeeeeeee to make all the ladeez you want to shag jellus.

Can you hear yourself FFS. Grow up!

[BolshierAryaStark]

There is always someone prettier you know OP
He sounds like a shallow twat from your description & I'm unsure why you would want him as a best friend tbh.

[Trills]

OP the reason people are saying you fancy him is because everything you say about him paints him in a negative light, but you are still insisting that he is a good friend.

That kind of excuse-making is most often reserved for people we fancy.

[Trills]

It would probably be better if you all just ignored the Snapchat element and glossed it over with "hew takes pictures with her and not with the OP".

The thing I can't understand is why the OP is defending him so much. What ARE these other good qualities that he has? He is "a player" who takes photos with the most attractive woman around in order to make other people jealous.

[corlette]

Ah thanks Iora, I see. I thought a 10 second viewing opportunity was a bit odd

[IoraRua]

Corlette is the name of the poster that message was for. Tried to bold it, clearly didn't work!

[Gruntfuttock]

IoraRua WTF is a corlette?

[IoraRua]

You can save the pic if it's your own corlette at the editing stage :) If it is someone elses you can screen shot or get an app to auto download all snaps you open.

It doesn't just suddenly pop up on the screen and then disappear - you send a snap to someone, it notifies them and the snap then sits there til they open it. Or you post it to your story - any of your friends can view it as many times as they like until 24 hours are up.

[thatwouldbeanecumenicalmatter]

The OP's last post - I actually did a Mutley dog laugh at that! Ha, ha creased up here, how bloody random

[Senpai]

he obviously thinks shes hot but I don't believe he would want to date her.

If he thinks she's hot, he probably would want to date her.

He's probably taking selfies with her because he likes her and is likely using that as an excuse to get in her space and flirt a bit.

[corlette]

What is the point of a photo staying up for 10 seconds? What if your friends aren't on Snapchat at that time? Will no one see it?
What if it's a nice photo and you'd like to keep it, does it just go?

( misses point of thread)

[HortonWho]

Scarlett, oh we get it. Difference is, if some random bloke on the tube said that to either me or my friend, we'd both tell him to fuck off and laugh he actually thought we'd give a shiny fuck about his unwanted opinion on our looks.

One does get more confident with age.

[laffymeal]

have you bothered to read the OP's posts *scarlett0x"? They're really unpleasant, on AIBU you get what you give.

[diddl]

"I have no idea what I'll do with them though"

Well at least you're trying & it's the thought that counts!

[MilkTwoSugarsThanks]

We're popping out (Sainsbury's again - livin' the dream) in a few minutes. I'll take some photos.

I have no idea what I'll do with them though as I don't have Snapchat, Twitter, Fakebook, WhatsApp or anything like that.

Shit, it's a wonder DP hasn't left me yet

[scarlettf0x]

for some reason, it's pile on of the week, everybody berate the OP (even though she came here feeling low), make her feel crap as well as unattractive. Well done, job done mumsnetters.

If the example used hadn't been snap chat, this thread could have gone entirely differently.

There's nothing like a good pile on.

[diddl]

"Even though I am actually out with him and being seen with him."

Oooh your poor OH!

RL is meaningless unless backed up by socail media.

He must be so hurt.

[laffymeal]

I don't have Snapchat but apparently I turn up in a lot of them. People take photos of me ALL THE TIME, even in ALDI (don't like Morrisons) so I must be fucking gorgeous OP.

I'm 50 by the way, not 15 which you sound and I bet I have a better social life than you.

My DD has just said I appeared on her Snapchat last night at about midnight on my friend's "story".

Not surprised your friend doesn't take photos of you, if your persona on here represents you well, you're probably pretty unattractive as personality always outs you.

Why are you so jealous of this other woman? Is it her you fancy?

[hoopityhoopla]

op what a twat you are

[MilkTwoSugarsThanks]

I'm a bit worried now.

When I go out (y'know - in public) with DP I don't take photos of us together. Does that mean he'll think I don't want to be seen out with him? Even though I am actually out with him and being seen with him.

[ElsaAintAsColdAsMe]

you must all be so beautiful that you've never been in the situation where some thoughtless sexist man basically ranks the women around him according to their attractiveness

Plenty of times, but the fact that he is being a dickhead makes his opinion invalid and not worth getting upset about.

I don't base my feelings on what a man has to say about my looks.

It has nothing to do with the op of the thread though as the man here said/did nothing to her, merely chooses to take pictures with another friend, in the same way he probably has coffee with some friends, drinks with others, goes to the gym with others....

[ConstanceMarkYaBitch]

All men rank all women in order of attractiveness. Womendo it to. And men do it with other men and women with women. Sonetimes conciously often not. Its not sexist to fancy one women (or man) and not another. Its completely fucking normal!

I, for example, look like a bulldogs arse chewing a wasp. Very few people want to take snapchats, selfies or any other type of pic with me. Its not a shocker.

[LosingTheWillToSkate]

I don't really get it.

I have friends who love having their photo taken and often take selfies with each other. They all know this of each other so they enjoy it together.

Personally I hate having my photo taken so I avoid it.

[beefthief]

Yes, you're being unreasonable. Are you 16, OP?