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To be absolutely fucking fuming that DS2 has been sent home from nursery with impetigo?

103 replies

AwfulCuntForTheButter · 11/11/2015 23:57

The staff were incredibly cavalier about it and said 'it's been going about for a few days'.

They're quick enough to call whenever they want money, but they couldn't let parents know about something highly contagious?

OP posts:
IndiaRaine · 12/11/2015 23:00

Worms? WTF? Shock

MrsGradyOldLady · 12/11/2015 23:01

Well if it were me and I knew it was impetigo I would have kept mine off. Most other things I wouldn't have. Genuinely, it never came up at my kids nursery (all 3 of them) so surely it's not that hard to contain?

Anyway it's all academic and we're just arguing the toss between us as op hasn't been back Grin

MrsGradyOldLady · 12/11/2015 23:03

Yeah sorry India that was probably down to me. Soz.

IndiaRaine · 12/11/2015 23:08

They get WORMS?!

GreatFuckability · 12/11/2015 23:12

Thread worms. My older 2 have never had them. dd2...different story.
Bloody impetigo did the rounds for months here. Not a lot to be done really.

Morgan · 12/11/2015 23:17

14 yr old DS came home from scout camp with impetigo !

MrsGradyOldLady · 12/11/2015 23:21

Well that's what we're arguing about India ! My 3 DIDN'T get worms at nursery. But then my son DID get them at school. 4 times. And then he gave them to me. I remember it well as was heavily pregnant at the time so had gone to bed early, felt "something" in the arse region - and LO it was an inch long worm. It was 9 years ago now but I still remember with crystal clear clarity. Unfortunately.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 12/11/2015 23:22

They do, India - sorry.

NHS threadworm information.

MrsGradyOldLady · 12/11/2015 23:28

And the ones that crawl out of your arse to lay eggs on a night are a lot bigger than a piece of cotton.

MrsGradyOldLady · 12/11/2015 23:29

Or maybe that's just me amplifying my horror... because the way I remember it, it was practically an anaconda

amarmai · 12/11/2015 23:36

are the toys etc in this nursery being kept clean on a rotation basis, as impetigo will be passed from toys and i cannot figure how books wd be sanitised . They probably need to be discarded.

IndiaRaine · 12/11/2015 23:39

This is disgusting. Why did no one tell me this before I had a child?!

Topseyt · 12/11/2015 23:40

Another "fucking fuming" thread. Grin

The amount of "fucking fuming" that goes on on MN is amazing.

MrsGradyOldLady · 12/11/2015 23:47

Not all children get them rain. My youngest dd has never had them. It's just if they bite their nails or cuticles or go to shit nursery.

reni2 · 12/11/2015 23:48

Topseyt, it's mn for not very happy I think unless there are loads of mnetters with serious anger issues.

DH=husband
TTC=trying to conceive
Fucking fuming=a little inconvenienced

MrsGradyOldLady · 12/11/2015 23:48

a shit nursery that should say

GreatFuckability · 12/11/2015 23:57

india like I say my older two have never had then and dd2 didn't get them til she started school. I was horrified the first time, these days I'm much more blasé about it.

GreatFuckability · 12/11/2015 23:58

mrsgrady dd2 doesn't bite nails, or go to a shit school. Its just one of those things.

GreatFuckability · 13/11/2015 00:02

And none of mine got impetigo until last year so 11, 9 and 8 years old. It started with a cut on ds's leg that was tiny and a couple of days later had spread all down his leg. By the time I saw it it was spread to all of us, me included. And as soon as one was clear another got it. I boil washed and sterilised everything in sight but once its started it can be really hard to contain.

MrsGradyOldLady · 13/11/2015 00:28

great well perhaps your children forgot to wash their hands before they ate. Who knows. The way worms are spread is through the eggs being ingested. So as long as a child washes their hands before eating and after the toilet, and never puts their fingers in their mouth they won't get them. Problem is that kids tend to put their fingers on their mouths.

GreatFuckability · 13/11/2015 00:31

Yes, I know, she might well have. My point is, that its not a given that a child wont get worms if they don't nail bite or go to a shit nursery. My eldest IS a nail biter and never had them.

MrsGradyOldLady · 13/11/2015 00:32

Sorry I just read that back and I sound incredibly rude. Was really not meant that way at all.

MrsGradyOldLady · 13/11/2015 00:35

I know. My original comment was more for the worried poster who hadn't heard of worms. And was slightly tongue in cheek but obviously that doesn't come across well on a forum Grin

GreatFuckability · 13/11/2015 00:37

fair enough Grin. Bastard worms.

MrsGradyOldLady · 13/11/2015 00:47

Yeah they are bastards. Really hoping my days of the bastarding twats are finally over Wine