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To think that schools should not be pressurising parents to take their children to the doctor just because the child has been off for two days

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ReallyTired · 10/11/2015 10:53

dd has flu. She has been sick, has a runny nose and a temperature. There is no way that she is fit for school. The school are telling me that I need to take to the doctor. I have refused to take her to the doctor because I think it would be a monumental waste of everyone's time. Dd just wants to hide under her duvet. I am pretty certain that dd just has a virus that needs to take its course and there is nothing that a GP can do to help dd. Dd horrible lurgly could be dangerous to vunerable groups like the elderly or pregnant women. I would hate for my poor GP to catch dd's germs.

I feel that schools should not be encouraging parents to waste GPs time. Adults are allowed to self certify for up to seven days. I think that parents should be allowed to certify that their children are too sick for school for seven days.

Its no wonder that people cannot get appointments for the doctor when they need a doctor. I want a doctor appointment to be available to dd if she is not better next week.

OP posts:
FlipFlopFlorence · 10/11/2015 21:04

I'm a school governor and this kind of thing is causing huge dissent. School are under huge pressure about attendance and it is indeed a tickbox exercise. Many governors (a fair proportion of whom are doctors themselves or work in the NHS) realise it's ridiculous and won't support this kind of action but some Heads just carry on regardless or are given no choice by their LA. I don't believe a school can 'insist' on a doctor's visit. That is your choice as a parent. I would continue to refuse, and stand up for common sense. If her attendance is good overall I don't see what the school can do.

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ATruthUniversallyAcknowledged · 14/01/2017 22:16

Zombie alert!!!!!!

Op, why have you bumped all these old threads? Just start your own.

candycoatedwaterdrops · 14/01/2017 22:24

Stop spamming!!!!

JenniferYellowHat1980 · 14/01/2017 22:26

Gosh I'm sure those will really hit the school where it hurts - fighting back with just a PhD and some determined spamming. Please stop now!

Ditsyprint40 · 14/01/2017 22:30

Oh dear. What is this DFE policy you speak of?

civilfawlty · 14/01/2017 22:42

Completely agree. The pressure to take your kids to school when they are ill, so spreading the infection, is absurd. The request to waste NHS resources to tick a box is absurd. And it ISNT the way to deal with parents who don't get their kids to school. Drives me bully bonkers.

ATruthUniversallyAcknowledged · 14/01/2017 22:43

Zombie!!!!!!!

userblahblahblah bumped loads of similar threads.

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